Are you accusing Obama of being too weak to press the reforms which are needed at the cost of public support and consequently reelection?
Well, yes. He himself once stated that he'd rather be a great one-term President than a mediocre two-term President. But I don't see that same attitude in his actions. I think if he said, "Y'all be tripping. I'm going to introduce a package of spending cuts AND we're going to tax corporate jets because y'know....they're fucking assets like everything else a corporation owns. You wanna go on record as defending a CEO's right to fly in his own private Learjet while everybody is clipping coupons to buy a fucking Coke, you be my guest. See how that works for you come November." then a LOT of people would rally behind that.
Look, the Tea Partiers and the other assorted froth on the Right are NEVER going to like the guy. He could cure cancer while sweating gold bullion into the US Treasury and playing kickball with Osama's head, and they would still find a reason to hate him. So stop trying to win their support. Start putting their balls to the wall and squeeze
really damn hard. Because that's frankly that's what the majority of his base wants to see. As for the disconnected middle, they just want to see something DONE. They don't care about the arguing, they just want somebody to try something. If he were to present concrete plans, and then let them get shot down by an obstructionist GOP, a lot of people would respect him for trying and rightly excoriate the Republicans for stopping him. But like far too many Democrats, he's more worried about what Fox is going to say about him than what his own supporters are going to say about him. The moment he started caring more for his approval rating and his re-election chances than in trying to fix the country is the moment he began losing support among the Democrats and Independents. He lost support among Republicans the moment he was born.