I guess the point was more along the lines of "yes, there are ways to point nublets to help." That is something that is to be recognized and commended, however, I can't see a compelling reason not to put in more ways to point people towards help and make the game more accessible. In the original Starcraft, you could only select like twelve units at a time. I can't use human speech to adequately explain what a pain that made managing any decent army, at least for me. It was abysmal and completely unnecessary, an artificial bit of difficulty that didn't test my skill as a general or player. Starcraft II implemented the ability to select more than twelve units. Yes, professionals and veterans could expertly hotkey groups to get around this and move a big army as if he had the power to select it all, and that was part of their skill, but would you say that change dumbed down the game?
Of course DF is going to be an impenetrable wreck to somebody who isn't interested in learning it in the first place, but we definitely shouldn't be making the design ethic of an interface "you've been given ample chance, and if you refuse to take it, well, guess you're screwed, ain't ya" in any situation ever. It's not an interface's job to decide who's worthy to play the game or use the program or whatever. The only way I was recently able to pick this game up was with the critical assistance of the Lazy Newb Pack and the open, helpful community here as well as the wiki. Without it, I wouldn't be having fun, much less !!Fun!!.
Everyone deserves as much of a shot as we can give them to see if DF's their cup of tea, and anyone who gets turned away because of artificial obstacles, even if they don't meet your standards of diligence, well, that's kind of a shame.
And of course I really have no concrete suggestions for how to help or anything, I'm more arguing about design philosophy and stuff. There's a will, there's a way and all that. (Jesus, DF players of any group of people should know that. Live in a gigantic statue of a Dorf? OF COURSE! Flood the world with magma to kill the fucking Elephants? You betcha!)