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Re: Ethical Dilemmas: How Far Would You Go To Save Someone You Love?
« Reply #210 on: July 01, 2011, 02:33:16 pm »

Even better than new thread: edit the first post and put the dillema there.
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« Reply #211 on: July 01, 2011, 03:11:44 pm »

I used to be totally egalitarian in regards to humans, but having procreated changed all that changed. I will happily kill all of you, my friends and the rest of the world in order to save my kid. Pure irrational emotion trumps rational morals.

I actually hold that one's responsibility to their own child is different than their responsibility to any other human being.  It is a unique relationship. 

You created this person.  You brought them into the world.  They had no say in the matter.  Every moral implication of that act rests completely on your shoulders.  This person depends on you for their survival.  They absolutely cannot survive without the direct support of an adult, and you took on that task when you created them.  They are your ultimate responsibility above all others.

If it were my kid's life on the line, I just might kill the guy for his marrow.  That would be the only instance where it would be a really really tough decision.  I would feel a responsibility to do the dirty deed, where in any other case, it would only feel like an opportunity.

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« Reply #212 on: July 01, 2011, 04:38:13 pm »

What you do doesn't change your capacity, but it is a measure.  If your thought process is literally "I know I could behave better, but I don't care because it doesn't change anything" then you have in fact proven that your capacity for good behavior is proportional to your immediate perception of return on that investment.

If I know I can behave better, then my capacity is obviously not proportional to my immediate perception of a return on my investment. If I did not have the capacity for both, I could not have chosen in the first place.

Sticky.  Depends on the internal dialogue guiding decision making.  If it's "Well this would seem like the better thing to do, but I'm not going to because this other option benefits me more and no one else is going to know about it anyway", then I believe that is a showing of true colors.  Knowing that one can behave better indicates potential.  If one knows of an option, then obviously they could choose to take it.  That is a potential.  Whether one lives up to that potential or not is what I see as a measure of present capacity, as their decision to take that option is filtered through a process where pros/cons are weighed.  Morality is only one factor among many.  If they know that one decision would be morally better, but other factors carry more weight to them personally than morality, then I see that as a demonstration of their current capacity for moral behavior. 

Apparently, if it doesn't directly make the world a better place, then personal gain is favorable.

It is only favorable if you think that is favorable, and gain is a relative assessment as well, so you can not make that kind of assertion in a generalized and objective fashion. If my action or inaction would not make the world a better place, but my personal tastes favor that action or inaction, it would still be favorable to chose what I perceive to be the moral good.

Unless you believe that somehow you're incredibly special and very few people have a similar thought process to yours, then it is safe to assume that a considerable portion of the population will operate in the same fashion as you.  If those people behave selfishly any time they're not convinced that their decisions will have broad implications for society, then that's a lot of selfish behavior, the sum of which DOES have broad implications for society.

Certainly, but, in our fictional scenario, I am not making moral decisions for many people. I am making moral decisions for myself, and there is no mechanism by which my moral or immoral behaviour will compel those people to behave in a similar fashion without knowledge of the act.

Yeah, gain is a relative assessment, but I don't see how that is relevant in theoretical scenarios where, for instance, "loved one" is a clear indication of personal value.  Some people may not have loved ones at all, but that's not the point here.  You are threatened with losing someone that you greatly value.  You can kill someone else to avoid this loss.  Do you do it or not?

As for making the world a better place, I think that's a question of how broad a perspective you take on your actions.  I know that if I press this, you'll point out the relativity of what makes a "better world".  I've said it before, but I'll reiterate.  Very very very few people actually want to live in a world where they need to fear other people taking advantage of them for personal gain.  Sure, it's an assumption on my part, but I think it's a safe one.  By extension, it is a violation of most people's morality, even from a relative position, to reinforce the existence of a world where people take advantage of each other for their own benefit.  That doesn't mean that people won't do it, but it's widely understood to be immoral.

In the case of the second moral dilemma of this thread, your decision to kill the guy may not have influence over anyone else's decision.  But if you base your decision off of this criteria, then you can reasonably assume that other people will also give comparable weight to this criteria.  So you have given yourself reason to fear others.  Not something anyone wants.  And even if your decision has no influence over anyone else, your isolated action still reinforces the existence of a world where people act in such a manner. 

Even if you are the only person in the world that does such a thing, that means that is 1 person in the world who does such a thing, which is 1 step closer to a world where people do such things, which is not a desirable outcome, and thus makes it an immoral action.  Make sense?


Or if you don't believe in the above, then I see two directions you can go.  Perhaps you believe that if you hold yourself to a higher standard, that you'll just be better than everyone else, giving up on personal gain while everyone else continues to behave selfishly and it will all be pointless in the end.  What a pretentious view.  Or you could go the other way and assume that enough people hold better standards of behavior than you that your isolated acts of selfishness won't matter.  A world made of good people can support a few bad ones, right?  This one doesn't look so good, either.

That is a false assumption wrapped in a false dilemma wrapped in an appeal to consequences, like some manner of fallacious philosophical turducken.

Appeal to Consequences
The argument, “you should not believe X, because that would mean you are pretentious or selfish, and would be pointless,” is not a valid one. Objective things are not invalid merely because we do not like them.

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You assume that I can either believe you, be pretentious, or be selfish. I shall take option D.

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You use words like “better”, “good”,  and “higher standard” like some manner of objective truths. You define what is better and good by equating bad with selfishness, you decide that your first option is pointless, and then you use that to make a general statement about what people should do: “This one doesn't look so good, either.” That is assuming that morals are not relative to individuals, but they are. You even admitted that they are.

My Assertion:  Your own decision making process is a guide by which you can predict how other people will behave.

Assumption: The majority of people hold a limited set of similar values (See: Do not want to live in a world where they have to fear being exploited by others). 

You could argue that assumption, but you instead argued the assertion but claiming that your decision would have no influence over anyone else's decisions. 

Ok.  So let's examine this counter-claim while maintaining the assumption.  In this case, you either believe that the majority of people will betray their values and behave immorally, and if you hold true to your values that you will just be giving up on personal gain to be better than everyone else while not making the world a better place, and thus doing nothing but pointlessly throwing away personal gain.  Or the other option is that you believe everyone will hold true to their values and behave morally, and that if you behave immorally it won't matter because your decision won't influence anyone else to behave immorally, so you'll get free personal gain without making an already good world a worse place.  You can just get away with being the bad guy.


The following is my personal perspective, and how I try to live my life. 

Honestly, I am abhorred and uplifted by various instances of human behavior every single day.  I don't like the current state of the world, as I think those who behave selfishly end up in positions of greater influence.  However, I desperately cling to a belief that society can reach a higher standard.  I could not go on living in this world unless I did.

My my, society not good enough for you, eh? You are of far too much moral character to suffer the evils of everyone else, and, if you did not think everyone could be better, you just would not be able to stay here and smell the stink of humanity. You would just have to kill yourself. Such a view would seem to be every bit as pretentious as the option you deemed pretentious. One could say that your whole philosophy is downright arrogant, as, not only do you consider yourself the standard by which humanity should be judged, you are assuming that no one is better than you. You said so in the following post.

It is the knowledge that it is likely other people will encounter similar circumstances, and you cannot realistically expect them to make a better decision than you do.

Do you really consider yourself the paragon of your moral code? I have a hard time believing that you never dissappoint yourself. Even the god of salmon makes mistakes. (Or are you a god-salmon?)

I see society as the sum of all human behavior.  I cannot maintain a belief that that sum can reach a positive unless I can succeed in maintaining a personal standard at the level I wish to see.  Even more importantly, that state of society defined by a standard of responsible, mature, and compassionate behavior X literally cannot exist until a large enough portion of the population actually maintains X as a personal standard.  The first step to achieving this is to achieve it myself, and the more people realize this, the more capable we are of moving forward.

Perhaps, but that is not what you have said. You have asserted that your good action is somehow a demonstration of what you can expect from humanity, and you assert that you can change what you expect from humanity by changing your behaviour.

The following is my personal perspective, and how I try to live my life.

I never claimed to be perfect.  The ONLY thing I was saying with all of this is I try to take a broad perspective and give morality the greatest weight as a factor in all of my decision making.  I think it can be easily demonstrated that a considerable portion of people do not operate this way, at least enough to restrain society as a whole from being a pleasant thing.  I get criticised all the time for not being more selfish, or others defend their own behavior, not by trying to say that it is right but by pointing out how most would do the same.  People tend to be short-sighted (unaware of moral implications), cynical (uninterested in/given up on morality because others appear to be uninterested in morality), or impulsive (do things they know to be wrong because it feels better).

I don't think this makes me a better person.  I can and do at various times fall into short-sightedness, cynicism, or impulsiveness.  There are things about myself that I don't like.  I'm also well aware that there are people in the world with more integrity than I. 

I only see two differences between myself and the majority of people.  First, I feel like I try harder than most.  Just a feeling.  I'm well aware it's nothing more than that, and plenty of people probably feel the same way.  Second, and most importantly, is I don't believe that I am fundamentally different from anyone else.  Most people with this belief become cynical as they observe their own faults and realize that others have the same faults.  I become optimistic as I realize that I am capable of overcoming my faults, and the more I succeed in doing so, the more I know that others can do so as well.

The best example I know is the earlier one I mentioned regarding pacifism.  It is literally impossible for a world where people do not use violence to exist if I make use of violence.  People say that such idealism is impractical, because it relies on an ideal situation to operate.  They're completely missing the point.  The point is to align oneself with that ideal situation to allow it the potential to exist.

It is also impossible for a world where people do not use violence to exist whether you use violence or not, so I do not see why you would use that to support your decision.

If I am capable of restraining myself from violent behavior, than I have no reason to believe that others aren't also capable.  Thus, such a world is possible.  Plus, this attitude is absolutely self-defeating.  If you don't believe that something is possible and use this reasoning to justify taking action that actually makes it impossible, than of course it becomes impossible, but that is nobody's fault but yours.

Putting yourself at a disadvantage by not using violence will only permit those that have no such scruples to use violence against you. Law enforcement is paid to use violence so the ordinary citizen can be a pacifist from the comfort of a computer chair while he takes solace in the knowledge that, because he is a pacifist, he can expect other people to be pacifists. If he was not, well, all hope for humanity would be lost. Such a good thing that we have him around to do that.

I'm going to ignore this, so that this doesn't devolve into a political argument.

I am not a pacifist. It is an easy thing to say what one would do under improbable circumstances, but I hope I would fight, kill, and die in the defense of the innocent, as such pleases me, and I find men who would not do the same rather distasteful. Other people are not pacifists, your being a pacifist will not make them pacifists, and, sometimes, violence is the only way to deal with violent people.

I actually agree with you in a sense.  I'm going to quote what I said on this earlier in the thread.

For instance, I am a pacifist, but I get rather technical about putting my pacifism through the above criteria.  The core reasoning for being a pacifist is that I do not want to live in a world where people use violence as a tool to solve problems.  If I use violence as a tool to solve my problems, even if that problem is being faced with violence, then I directly reinforce the existence of a world where people use violence to solve their problems.  To say otherwise is literally the same as saying that 1+1=0.  However, I also don't want to live in a world where people value their personal ideologies over the lives of others, so I am more likely (as personal judgement deems necessary) to use violence in defence of another than I am in defence of myself, unless I know that they are of the same mind as I.  I am also a parent of two very young children whose well-being is directly related to mine, so I am thereby required to see to my own safety, even if that involves betraying my pacifism, at least until they are able to care for themselves.

I also want to ask you some things.  How do you judge innocence?  If everyone makes use of violence when they think it's necessary, then who is innocent?  How do you recognize, when acting in defense of another, if your opponent also believes they are acting in defense of another?  What is the end goal of your use of violence in combating violent people?  To lessen the amount of violence in the world?  How does that actually accomplish that goal?  If that isn't your goal, then what is the actual point?

I am not an absolutist.  I recognize that violence is often a responsible course of action.  I don't begrudge anyone for acting in self-defense.  I also think it's wrong not to defend others.  However, I am absolutely opposed to institutional policies of violence (as in law enforcement or war), and promote as much awareness of the implications of violent action in any form and avoidance of it wherever possible.
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Re: Ethical Dilemmas: How Far Would You Go To Save Someone You Love?
« Reply #213 on: July 01, 2011, 06:19:20 pm »

Doesn't matter if he's a dick or not, that does not imply less worth as a being.

Yes it does. What worth is a being who specifically does nothing of value?
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« Reply #214 on: July 01, 2011, 06:30:09 pm »

Doesn't matter if he's a dick or not, that does not imply less worth as a being.

Yes it does. What worth is a being who specifically does nothing of value?

I doubt a person has ever existed who was never seen as a dick by anyone.
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Re: Ethical Dilemmas: How Far Would You Go To Save Someone You Love?
« Reply #215 on: July 01, 2011, 06:35:44 pm »

I doubt a person has ever existed who was never seen as a dick by anyone.
So, No one is a Dick?

I don't see what your trying to say here.
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Re: Ethical Dilemmas: How Far Would You Go To Save Someone You Love?
« Reply #216 on: July 01, 2011, 06:37:54 pm »

Doesn't matter if he's a dick or not, that does not imply less worth as a being.
Yes it does. What worth is a being who specifically does nothing of value?
Because value cannot be defined, all human life has an equal worth.
So, No one is a Dick?
No, everyone is. In a way. There's just no way of objectively measuring "worth". And doing it subjectively led to such wonderful things as slavery, genocide, etc.
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« Reply #217 on: July 01, 2011, 06:42:40 pm »

That a person can appear to be a dick, but that's a shallow basis for assumption that they do nothing of value.

One friend comes to mind who is a total sleeze in personal relationships.  He's scorned many women.  Some completely hate his guts and think he's a terrible person.  At the same time, he's amazing friend who goes out of his way to help people all the time.  He also worked for years as a behaviorist at a facility for low-functioning young adults, where he was literally shit on and attacked every day while trying to help people.  He's offered advice based on his education in behavior therapy and sociology that has helped my marriage and parenting skills.  I see him as both a total dick and an awesome guy at the same time... it depends on the situation.

I find that most people are like that at least to some extent.  It's just a matter of knowing them well enough.
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« Reply #218 on: July 01, 2011, 11:55:15 pm »

All I know is that I wouldn't kill him. Why?

Think about it. Your killing someone-To save your loved one. If your loved one knew that another human being died because of them, what kind of life is that to live? Even if they didn't know, that's not a good conscience to have. If you kill another to save another, then you might as well be killing both.

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« Reply #219 on: July 02, 2011, 07:16:07 pm »

I disagree that worth is immeasurable. The man in question is worth less than the loved one in every way. Physically, he's on the verge of death anyway; spiritually/emotionally, he has no regard whatsoever for his fellow man (and even if he is a good person to his close personal friends, one has to wonder why he is only kind to people who he deals with every single day); and intellectually, he's too stupid to not laugh at somebody's dying loved one while the only thing keeping them alive is a plastic tube. The guy is an obvious leech. We can get sappy all we want, sure. I wouldn't kill him if my loved one didn't require it. I wouldn't do it if he was a genuinely good person, either. The guy set out the challenge that he was willing to take his chances when he laughed at my life or death tragedy, however. I'd pull the cord without a second thought.
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« Reply #220 on: July 02, 2011, 07:28:36 pm »

The man in question is worth less than the loved one in every way.  Physically, he's on the verge of death anyway

And so is your loved one...

spiritually/emotionally, he has no regard whatsoever for his fellow man (and even if he is a good person to his close personal friends, one has to wonder why he is only kind to people who he deals with every single day); and intellectually, he's too stupid to not laugh at somebody's dying loved one while the only thing keeping them alive is a plastic tube. The guy is an obvious leech.

This is a lot of assumption, given only a single encounter under stressful circumstances...  Just because he blew off one total stranger in need who asked him to do something painful and draining while he's already in a life-threateningly weakened state and probably heavily drugged is very little basis to determine that he could only possible be a good person to personal friends/family.
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« Reply #221 on: July 02, 2011, 10:29:47 pm »


spiritually/emotionally, he has no regard whatsoever for his fellow man (and even if he is a good person to his close personal friends, one has to wonder why he is only kind to people who he deals with every single day); and intellectually, he's too stupid to not laugh at somebody's dying loved one while the only thing keeping them alive is a plastic tube. The guy is an obvious leech.

This is a lot of assumption, given only a single encounter under stressful circumstances...  Just because he blew off one total stranger in need who asked him to do something painful and draining while he's already in a life-threateningly weakened state and probably heavily drugged is very little basis to determine that he could only possible be a good person to personal friends/family.

Also, by killing him, you are guilty of the same 'crime' he is.
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« Reply #222 on: July 02, 2011, 10:34:22 pm »

I honestly couldn't kill someone, even if my life was in danger. I don't think I would have the capacity to kill someone, I mean its just terrible and I would be ashamed of myself if I did it. Even if the person I killed was a "Bad Guy" I would still really regret it.
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Re: Ethical Dilemmas: Something Worth Dying For
« Reply #223 on: July 03, 2011, 02:34:25 pm »

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Next Dilemma: Something Worth Dying For

You are living in a despotic authoritarian superpower. This nation has commited every atrocity and rights violation known to man, including secret police, ethnic clensing, state surveillance, death camps, and violent conquests of other nations in order to maintain economic viabilty in such a society. They are quite simply wrecking the entire world. You are the charismatic leader of a unified revolutionarly group fighting this nation, and have made great strides in destabilizing their rule. You can practically taste the tipping point that will bring about mass revolt. You've seen enough of how people think to know that this is just around the corner. Unfortunately, there is a rather significant problem. Last night your luck finally ran out, and the state police broke into your hideout. They captured you alive, and knowing the precarious position that they find their rulership in, are offering you a deal: You go on international television and denounce your own group. Given your status, this would be a rather crushing blow to their morale, and might even turn the tide back in the regime's favor. In exchange, they will allow you to live in luxury as a high-class poltical prisoner for the rest of your natural life. If you do not, they will execute you on television instead to try and demoralize the resistance. Given that they know that you could die at any point, this would be far less harmful to the resistance, and likely will not save the government.

What will you do?
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« Reply #224 on: July 03, 2011, 02:45:51 pm »

If I became the leader of a world wide revolutionary group, probably I made this choice a long time ago...
you don't lead a revolution if you aren't ready to die for it ( well, not this kind of revolution anyway).

What would the present me do is a bit harder to say. I am not a brave person... But In the described situation, I would probably choose death.
And spend my last few days thinking of something to say on the national TV... if I have to go, I may as well go well. who knows, maybe the revolution will be boosted by that.
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