oh right. there's a new one. i answered the old one because i was still in the process of reading through.
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i wouldn't kill the guy.
not because i'd be a murderer, but because i can relate the feeling of "your on your own" he too had to wait on the heart transplant list. if he were to do a marrow transplant, he could well possibly die. Heck, he might have died even from the operation.
Furthermore, his suffering is not taken into account.
I recall i was completely out of my mind after an operation, due to the painkillers i was given. It doesn't mean i'm a dick person, or an asshole. Just, it was the wrong moment to be next to me.
Probably if it were to be asked afterwards, gently, and saying that it might as well have been fate for him to be there and still alive, he might agree to a marrow transplant (which i recall is not lethal in the least aka: you don't die if you give a piece of marrow, apart from surgical complicancy) But in the event of him saying no, who would blame him? i mean, he had to pass months and months probably praying to god or whatever for a heart transplant. He's been through the same things you were for your loved one.
as long as you don't know why he's there or how, just because he said "no" doesn't mean you should kill him.
and it would haunt you doing it.
and it doesn't even mean you might get his marrow killing him, since there are lists and the like. and maybe there's a little tiny 5 years old girl who needs it or will die after five minute.
on the other hand, if he were a pedophile/murderer/psycho or something of the sort, of whom i knew the certainty of his crimes, and who has evaded prison through ingegnious ways, i'd kill him. Even if i wouldn't get the marrow, even if it would haunt me. Because he would deserve it.
And if somebody were to ask "who are you to decide for him?" i'd reply:"noone, but i have the power to decide, and i have decided. may it be wrong or right, unless god stays my hand (anygod for what it matters to an atheist) this is my way, and i'll stick through it. it can even make me look like an arse, but to me, criminals are criminals. And they deserve punishment to make them stop being criminals. and sometime, death is the only answer."