I'll admit, part of the difference in perception could be due to the sexuality taboo in the U.S. So we get clothed buttshots instead of nearly-nude accidental groping and onsen episodes.
Game of Thrones: At least one scene featuring sex or tits for no reason in (almost) every episode.
If one is not a stripper but dresses up as one for a special occasion, then yes, one is cosplaying as a stripper.
That's sort of what cosplay is: dressing up as something you aren't in the context of a social event revolving around such things. From a certain perspective, masquerade balls were cosplay cons.
Yeah, fanservice is definitely becoming more acceptable (and therefore common, I don't think there was much else holding them back) in western media. At least Game of Thrones is a very R-rated show, for what it's worth. In fact a lot of the nudity is, and likely intended to be, kind of uncomfortable (although some of it is indeed just fanservice). It seems like a lot of anime puts fanservice in without accounting for how it affects the overall formula.
Anyway, cosplaying as a stripper? A stripper dresses up all skimpy and takes their clothes off. That woman is dressing up all skimpy and taking her clothes off. That basically all amounts to dressing up in a certain way... can you dress up AS a stripper without being a stripper? I mean I guess you could dress up like someone who's likely to strip but not actually strip, but that's not what she's doing and
my brain ouchAnyway I did neglect to mention some other animes which past the "can stand it" test:
Lupin III: This is another show which has a mundane aesthetic, no "power levels", fisticuffs happen, etc. It has some incredibly stupid blasphemy against science, but like Gurren Lagann it kind of gets a pass for being self-aware and completely over the top. Also, I don't think a single person has blue hair to my recollection, which is a plus. There's fanservice, but it's often played for laughs. Man, I just wish I could find that
one adult swim bumper...
Speed Racer: A classic! I actually watched this when I was a kid, even though it was old even then. This includes a lot of things that other animes I liked have (no super powers, fisticuffs, and, let's be honest, 70's hair). Probably of note here is that the production values, which are often by today's standards, don't really bug me. There's a lot of repetitive animation and some off-model moments. Even when it's really corny and unrealistic, something about the plot seems more believable (or at least, investing) than a lot of the anime I don't like. I like the slower pace and establishing shots too. That seems like a small factor, but it's really noticeable if you watch some of the later half-hour episodes (they're traditionally two-parters totaling to an hour for each episode) which feel rushed, incoherent and kind of rubbish.
So I guess the moral of the story is I hate super-powers, power levels, and wangst. Except when they aren't taken seriously. Put that way, you'd think that accounts for a very narrow margin of anime, and yet... it doesn't. Certainly not by share of popularity at least. Oh yeah, and I don't like fucking kawaii cat ears. Put that on the list.