Side note: Considering current sociopolitical situations in many areas of Europe, it
is relevant to at least attempt to not be offensive toward the Roma people or perpetuate any stereotypes about them. I've spoken to a lot of people from, for example, northern European countries, and I can tell you that stereotyping and prejudice toward them is very, very, very much alive and well, and extraordinarily common.
But I didn't use the phrase "Australian" "Roma people" did I? So how can I have it backwards... You are describing using the phrase "Romani" to talk about a gypsie, so you have to backwards, as I never did such a thing. Athough I agree, a stereotype like that would be offensive, I'm sure they have taken up all sorts of walks of life, but it doesn't change the point that a gypsie is not always a Romani.
I think the confusion here is that you think "gypsy" primarily means "traveling person". It doesn't. The only reason it means that at all is through association with a stereotype of Roma people. You're just so starkly unaware of the existence of the Roma people, or the prejudice against them, that you feel okay ignoring the connection between the people themselves and the word "gypsy". The word gypsy
primarily refers to the Roma people and to stereotypical portrayals of them. This is not even a matter of debate here. Saying "a gypsy is not always a romani" is like saying "a wetback isn't always a mexican, sometimes they're just lazy agricultural workers"; one is, and has always been, related to a stereotype of the other.
What? When did all this happen?
It's been happening
for centuries. The fact that you aren't aware of it doesn't change anything. And yes, this perception exists in the United States as well, which is a fact you've summarily ignored even though I've brought it to light and given examples of it. I have literally heard the phrase "sell you to the Gypsies" before, and given examples of negative portrayals of them in media. Stereotyping of the Roma[ni] people is not something that only happened centuries ago, is not something that only ever happened in Europe, and is not some meaningless piece of historical trivia that you can ignore. It's recent, it's pervasive, and that entire ethnic group is one of the few ethnic "acceptable targets"
left in the United States; you can write a novel or a movie about an old thieving Gypsy woman cursing you to your death and get away with little scorn, which is the sort of negative portrayal that does not go over well when most other commonly-stereotyped ethnic groups are concerned. This is an actual problem, and it's one you are not helping by acting like this.