This is from another forum where someone was defending Ron Paul's statement that if someone is being molested in their workplace it's their own fault for not quitting their job on the spot. I really can't believe how difficult it is for people to realize that blaming the victim is absolutely ridiculous in these sorts of situations. The thread in question was mainly debating Ron Paul and libertarian ideology (which is heavily based in "fuck you, got mine"), so it's not entirely on topic. But it still ties into the general mindset of blaming the victim:
First, where are you getting 'most' from? Over half of the United States is below the poverty line, we're at around 10% unemployment, and if you up and quit without notice you can lose your accumulated benefits.
Further, even if everyone in the US could exist without pay, implicitly defending rape by arguing that the victim has the choice to leave is going completely against the non-aggression principle that Libertarians claim their ideology flows from. Someone is doing harm to you, and putting you in a situation where you either tolerate it or lose your job. It's coercion, and unlike the 'violence of law', it's coercion you did not agree to.
Saying that not getting raped is better than losing your job, and one should abandon their livelihood for it is arguable, but why should it be a choice? If you're being molested by your employer, they should be punished, and your job shouldn't be at forfeit for someone going out of their way to shit on your rights. If Ron Paul groped your ass and you didn't work for him, that is clearly his fault. Why should it be different because you work for him? Is it because you become his property? Does your personhood vanish the moment you sign on to work for someone? Can your personal rights, which he and other libertarians see as being inherent above all else including law, be bargained away? Is that not wildly inconsistent?
Saying that "well you were wearing those clothes, you were on the bad side of town, you were asking for it" to shrug off someone getting raped is indefensible. The only person responsible for the rape/molestation is the person who did it.
You don't see libertarians saying "well of course they were asking to be robbed, having such a big house with nice stuff in it." Rich people too have the choice to not be conspicuously wealthy, they can move to a secluded area, etc. And yet their suffering is not passed off as being their own fault when misfortunate strikes.
Why are tangible property rights to not have their golden toaster stolen from their home ranked higher than the right to not get tongue-kissed by Ron Paul because you work for him?
How sad that this is necessary to point out....
Why is the victim's sole remedy to renounce whatever they have that is in any way associated with their attacker? A job, walking outside, going places, etc.... Said victim has the least ability to stop or prevent the
offending act crime and doing so, if even possible, comes at an incredibly high cost to them. Comparatively, the attacker can merely stop or prevent the crime by simple inaction. Just don't do it. The attacker has the easiest, least costly, last clear chance to stop the crime. Thus, the incredibly light burden should fall to them.
The problem is humans do not have a set protocol for relating to one another and thus we suck at it. A monster that fed on human loneliness would never starve in a world full of humans despite the contradiction. Loneliness is the absence of others. We are surrounded by others, yet loneliness persists and thrives. If the condition persists despite being surrounded by the remedy, then the interaction or lack thereof between the two must be the problem.
Justice is not renunciation of value in the face of crime. It does not protect the criminal's right to impose upon victims. A Just society isn't one that malfunctions to the point of creating vast and extreme unmet needs of its citizens. This includes the relations between them.
The true preventative remedy to rape would be a courtship ritual that made sense. It would include the simple truth that rejection is required and
desired to find someone who will accept you. Mathematically speaking, any given person will be rejected (even if initially accepted) the overwhelming majority of the time when seeking a romantic partner and this is a weeding out process to find acceptance. Focusing on the rejection will prevent further search and thus prevent acceptance. While I'm at it, reasonable expectations would help, because I'm just not gonna get Brad Pitt of "Fall" for me in any universe. That's another part of the "weeding out process" figuring out what type of person is or isn't reasonable for you to expect. I'd go for a halfway decent looking guy who gave a shit about me had no drug problems and a skill set with a reasonable chance of employment. You're an unemployed carpenter; fine, I get it, bad economy.... Hopefully we'll see if you can make some stuff out of wood and we'll work with that. I've set people up with their own businesses before, meh.
The rapist typically doesn't want to hear any of that, much less do any of it. They just want laid without putting in the preliminary work. I've unfortunately had to defend a few of these assholes. It sucks. They are my third least favorite type of case to defend and I won't take them if possible.