I'm sorry I took us on this tangent if it's making you feel more jaded. That wasn't my intention. :/
Also, nooo, no self loathing. Bad. Of course I'm also pretty sure I'm misunderstanding what you're trying to communicate there.
And categories WORK, they just don't work PERFECTLY. They are tools we use to model reality and help it make sense, nothing more and nothing less.
O loath and jade have been around long before I came here I and doubt that anything short of even more years of therapy or the more tried and true method, even more years of alcohol can quiet them. That is to say, you didn't do anything bad. I actually like you, and given my jadedness/propensity for not holding back about not liking people,you know I actually do like you.
Sexuality is just fucked up in general. This conversation hasn't even gone into the realm of bizarre fetishes. Even completely uninteresting monogamous hetero sexuality is fucked up, because human sexual anatomy was obviously designed by a troll. I think it's always going to be screwed up for everyone.
Please do not elaborate. Yes, but please....
Sexuality is just fucked up in general. This conversation hasn't even gone into the realm of bizarre fetishes. Even completely uninteresting monogamous hetero sexuality is fucked up, because human sexual anatomy was obviously designed by a troll. I think it's always going to be screwed up for everyone.
True. What sort of messed up city planner would put a playground next to the sewers?
aaaand too late....
Damn it. O, I am actually quite afraid of the derail this could set us on [legitimate shudder].
Mhmm. I say just stop caring about what turns people on. That's their business, and there's no "right" or "wrong" way to go about it.
Provided you're not hurting anyone or anything, anyway. I'll start caring once a victim of some sort becomes involved.
Sounds good to me. Seems I have trouble finding a decent guy who is cool with my various oddities/being trans. Meh.