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Author Topic: Chill and Relaxed Progressive Irritation and Annoyance Thread  (Read 872023 times)

Neonivek

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Re: Chill and Relaxed Progressive Irritation and Annoyance Thread
« Reply #7755 on: November 28, 2011, 07:51:10 pm »

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No. It's common sense to treat women with dignity and respect. That's a basic concept ingrained in every human. However, our society oppresses those natural instincts from the moment we are born, filling us with a spitefull pseudo-morality in which oppression instead of equality is the norm

Why? Why would we ever come to that conclusion? Men and women are different and that a man's entire life's work is making sure women never get any shred of power unless it is to serve men. Why would we ever think about the women's feelings?

Are you saying that the idea that we should treat women wit dignity and respect is intrinsic knowledge?

Then how could that ever be overwritten?

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That would be the case in an egalitarian society, but in our society, women are getting the short end no matter what they do and men befall the opposite fate

Yes... so there are no socially repressed men  who are depressed because they did not wish to uphold the unjust standards of society and are suffering for it in the same way that there are NO successful happy women who managed to break away from the standards set around them and become people onto themselves.
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« Reply #7756 on: November 28, 2011, 07:52:43 pm »

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Are you suggesting that a company would be run differently if a woman had "done it her way?"  If you do, I have some seriously bad news for you.  Women and men both look at numbers the same

No Vertex is saying that in order to even run a company a woman has to essentially become a man.
That's still an asinine statement.  Companies may have been "forged by man" in that all the rules and groundwork was mostly male conceived, but it doesn't matter who gets to the top.  They'll still run the company to compete with other companies... they all play by the same rules.  Men and Women.  I'm not even sure how someone would think that a company would be somehow different if women made them.  They'd still have to confront the competition of other companies trying to sell products to the same customers.  They'd still try to market their products.  They'd still raise capital the same.  It just boggles my mind how someone can think that a woman that made it to the top was somehow modifying the fabric of her being to get there.  If anything, it smacks of saying that women are ill prepared to take on the workplace (not my words!) and have to relearn the ropes.

Virex, I don't want to think you're doing this intentionally but you manage to get everyone arguing against you about the same topic again and again with startling consistency.
That may be because my viewpoint is so alien compared to the comfortable, male-dominant world we live in that it tends to scare people senseless.
I may grow to regret doing this, but how exactly do you see a company being different in a Matriarchal society?
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« Reply #7757 on: November 28, 2011, 07:53:21 pm »

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That... still doesn't make any sense. They're men, why should they be bound by what others tell them?

You haven't like, actually lived out there, in the world, have you?

The patriarchy you hate so much? It would never be as powerful as it were if not for the enormous number of women who actively support it and prop it it up, because its not "proper" for women to get involved in those things. Women can be victims of women in a patriarchal society, just as much as they can be a victim of men, without the gender of the patriarchal perpetrator being relevant.

In the same way, there exist plenty of obvious examples of how patriarchy can actively oppress its male members just as effectively. Because while females are slaves, males are competitors - if anything, you need to be stricter on them to keep them in line.

Lets look at a particularly strong patriarchal society - the orthodox mormons. Can you honestly, with a straight face, argue that (many) men are not oppressed under their system? That all those in power are men does not lead to a some guarantee that all men have power.
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« Reply #7758 on: November 28, 2011, 07:54:34 pm »

Vertex is could very likely be a man.

Just given Vertex's writing style.

In fact somehow I was right. Virtex is a man.

Though it was very very obvious (though I wonder if people know why)
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« Reply #7759 on: November 28, 2011, 08:05:31 pm »

Vertex is could very likely be a man.

Just given Vertex's writing style.

In fact somehow I was right. Virtex is a man.

Though it was very very obvious (though I wonder if people know why)
I don't like it one bit either, but yes, I am a man.

Are you saying that the idea that we should treat women wit dignity and respect is intrinsic knowledge?

Then how could that ever be overwritten?
In the same way that the concept of self-preservation is overwritten for suicide bombers, or in the same way that the Patriarchy overwrites the natural knowledge that homosexuality is good?

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That would be the case in an egalitarian society, but in our society, women are getting the short end no matter what they do and men befall the opposite fate

Yes... so there are no socially repressed men  who are depressed because they did not wish to uphold the unjust standards of society and are suffering for it in the same way that there are NO successful happy women who managed to break away from the standards set around them and become people onto themselves.
There may be socially repressed men, but they are only repressed because they chose to be. Society hands them every opportunity possible on a silver platter and if they fail to take them, then that's their fault.
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Are you suggesting that a company would be run differently if a woman had "done it her way?"  If you do, I have some seriously bad news for you.  Women and men both look at numbers the same

No Vertex is saying that in order to even run a company a woman has to essentially become a man.
That's still an asinine statement.  Companies may have been "forged by man" in that all the rules and groundwork was mostly male conceived, but it doesn't matter who gets to the top.  They'll still run the company to compete with other companies... they all play by the same rules.  Men and Women.  I'm not even sure how someone would think that a company would be somehow different if women made them.  They'd still have to confront the competition of other companies trying to sell products to the same customers.  They'd still try to market their products.  They'd still raise capital the same.  It just boggles my mind how someone can think that a woman that made it to the top was somehow modifying the fabric of her being to get there.  If anything, it smacks of saying that women are ill prepared to take on the workplace (not my words!) and have to relearn the ropes.
That describes company as singular entities. A company is however just an amalgamation of people and all that have power within the company must somehow be seen as powerful by those who run or ran the company. Since a patriarchy doesn't allow non-patriarchal elements to be regarded as powerful, a company can't do anything but remain patriarchal.
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Virex, I don't want to think you're doing this intentionally but you manage to get everyone arguing against you about the same topic again and again with startling consistency.
That may be because my viewpoint is so alien compared to the comfortable, male-dominant world we live in that it tends to scare people senseless.
I may grow to regret doing this, but how exactly do you see a company being different in a Matriarchal society?
there would not be such a thing as a company in a matriarchy.
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That... still doesn't make any sense. They're men, why should they be bound by what others tell them?

You haven't like, actually lived out there, in the world, have you?

The patriarchy you hate so much? It would never be as powerful as it were if not for the enormous number of women who actively support it and prop it it up, because its not "proper" for women to get involved in those things. Women can be victims of women in a patriarchal society, just as much as they can be a victim of men, without the gender of the patriarchal perpetrator being relevant.
If women are the victims of a patriarchy, then how can they be oppressed by women? Just because there are women that are brainwashed into supporting the patriarchy doesn't make it a mixed-gender construct, it is still masculine in nature. The women that support it hold no power after all, they're just proxies for male oppression.
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In the same way, there exist plenty of obvious examples of how patriarchy can actively oppress its male members just as effectively. Because while females are slaves, males are competitors - if anything, you need to be stricter on them to keep them in line.
This assumes that the patriarchy behaves logical. But the mere fact that it excludes women should show you that it isn't. The very structure of the patriarchy is based on the idea that a male can get anywhere just by talking to the right person and a bit of iron will. Who you know defines where you get, but you can get to know anyone you want. For women this doesn't work, for obvious reasons.
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Lets look at a particularly strong patriarchal society - the orthodox mormons. Can you honestly, with a straight face, argue that (many) men are not oppressed under their system? That all those in power are men does not lead to a some guarantee that all men have power.
While a Mormon doesn't have much power within the Church of Mormon, he, as we're talking about men, can always opt out and society would accept and revel him for it. For women, not so much.
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« Reply #7760 on: November 28, 2011, 08:06:51 pm »

Though it was very very obvious (though I wonder if people know why)
The fact he keep using the word we when talking about white males was a clue.
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« Reply #7761 on: November 28, 2011, 08:12:38 pm »

there would not be such a thing as a company in a matriarchy.
Oh, well then.  In a Matriarchy, items and goods just appear and do not have to be made.  Makes total sense.  There's no need to have a company to manage and deal with the logistics of manufacturing, shipping, and support of products?

In this imaginary place, how do I get my TV delivered?
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« Reply #7762 on: November 28, 2011, 08:13:38 pm »

Educate yourself (also, sorry if I'm getting less coherent, it's way to late to argue here)


Besides, why do you assume you need a TV in a Matriarchy?
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Neonivek

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« Reply #7763 on: November 28, 2011, 08:13:54 pm »

Though it was very very obvious (though I wonder if people know why)
The fact he keep using the word we when talking about white males was a clue.

As well his style suggests distance from what he is writing about.

Which a woman arguing Virtex' points would be unusual for writing in such a way.

Especially from personal experience.

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There may be socially repressed men, but they are only repressed because they chose to be. Society hands them every opportunity possible on a silver platter and if they fail to take them, then that's their fault

But that Silver Platter is poison. Why would they take it?

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In the same way that the concept of self-preservation is overwritten for suicide bombers, or in the same way that the Patriarchy overwrites the natural knowledge that homosexuality is good?

You may want to rewrite this.

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I don't like it one bit either, but yes, I am a man.

This explains so much... and is so unfortunate that this is your viewpoint.

Taught to hate yourself because of your gender... how cruel.

Also you do NOT know what Marxist Feminism is Virex...
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« Reply #7764 on: November 28, 2011, 08:14:14 pm »

You just... you don't understand anything about how power works. God, its so frustrating.

Please, god, educate yourself a bit:
http://thehopeorg.org/boys.html

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There may be socially repressed men, but they are only repressed because they chose to be. Society hands them every opportunity possible on a silver platter and if they fail to take them, then that's their fault.
Yes, because gay men are totally only repressed because they choose to be. This makes perfect fucking sense. After all, they've got everything handed to them on a silver platter - all they have to do is deny the fundamental nature of who they are and act lack the ideal man, and everything will be fine!

Gah, nevermind this shit. New topic, please? Anything? Anyone?
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Neonivek

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« Reply #7765 on: November 28, 2011, 08:16:10 pm »

Yeah lets... switch topics

It REALLY got depressing.

But as I always say: "If you want to switch the topic then switch the topic"

So uhhhh... yeah
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« Reply #7766 on: November 28, 2011, 08:19:07 pm »

Via lawn gnomes.

You know, in such a huge universe as ours there must be a female Virex somewhere saying the exact same things in a matriarch society. The gods demand it.
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« Reply #7767 on: November 28, 2011, 08:22:52 pm »

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I don't like it one bit either, but yes, I am a man.

This explains so much... and is so unfortunate that this is your viewpoint.

Taught to hate yourself because of your gender... how cruel.
Erm? Nobody ever taught me anything about these matters. I've had to track it down to the very last detail and draw my own conclusions, which may also explain why our viewpoints differ so much. Besides, I don't see where the hate comes in?
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« Reply #7768 on: November 28, 2011, 08:23:32 pm »

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which may also explain why our viewpoints differ so much

Nope
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« Reply #7769 on: November 28, 2011, 08:24:45 pm »

That may be because my viewpoint is so alien compared to the comfortable, male-dominant world we live in that it tends to scare people senseless.
Sure.  But we don't need to discuss it endlessly at the expense of everything else, and you don't need to always derail the topic towards it.  I don't want to think you're a "lol parody" troll, but your behaviour is leading me to that conclusion more and more.
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