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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3810 on: August 17, 2011, 08:46:47 pm »

I meant in terms of enormous amounts of stupid emotional baggage.

Most people have this, why should it make you of all people less attractive when you have so much to make up for it?
This.

To some extent, getting older is just about learning to ignore/forget your baggage. After which, it's gone. You only carry that baggage which you refuse to let go of.

Damn, I wish I had a better way of explaining it without sounding like a slightly condescending fortune cookie.  :-\
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3811 on: August 17, 2011, 08:48:17 pm »

Yeah, well.

I'm only 21.  Got lots of time to burn on that.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3812 on: August 17, 2011, 08:53:44 pm »

Everyone has stupid emotional baggage. Going through serious problems can give you is perspective. Perhaps that perspective can let you see just how small the rest of that baggage can be.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3813 on: August 17, 2011, 08:56:56 pm »

I guess I will say that being lonely really doesn't feel as soul-crushing as it used to, because I've learned about some of the less palatable alternatives.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3814 on: August 17, 2011, 09:53:51 pm »

Phew. I gather the nerve to return to this thread after blowing up in it, and I see that I was mostly ignored. Good; I was being overly emotional. Apologies all around.

Kaijyuu, was that directed at me? I am sorry if I stepped on your toes.
Nope. TBH I was just skimming the thread, saw some comments that enraged me, and started spewing my opinion. None of them were yours.




Re: emotional baggage.
Yeah everyone has it. Just gotta learn how to deal with it; don't bottle it up, don't dump it on everyone else all the time. Find an avenue to deal with it.
Only an extremely unrealistic person would expect you to have no problems.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3815 on: August 17, 2011, 10:02:41 pm »

I have no emotional baggage from past relationships, at least.

But, like most other people who lack that particular flaw, I make up for it by being fucked up in other areas, yay.

And man, you're really only 21, Vector?
I thought you were... like... my age, at least. Woah.

I didn't even go on my first date until I was around that age.
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« Reply #3816 on: August 17, 2011, 10:47:36 pm »

. . .

That was another thing he told me.  You know--that rationally speaking, he was probably the only person who'd find me attractive.  That was before he decided I was evil and hell-bent on his destruction, and before he informed me that he'd adopted me as a fixer-upper project but I just was too intractable a problem for anyone to fix.

Thank you for reminding me of that.  Sometimes I forget.

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he was probably the only person who'd find me attractive.
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That was before he decided I was evil and hell-bent on his destruction,
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he informed me that he'd adopted me as a fixer-upper project
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I just was too intractable a problem for anyone to fix.
English: "You no do everything I tell you to without question or thought! Why you no do everything I tell you to? Imma hurt you emotionally cause you don't mindlessly obey me!"

At the risk of sounding stereotypical or against men, this is the kinda thing women say "men suck" about. Form personal experience, bad dates/relationships with guys sting. It just really hurts being with a jerk, or dumped by one, etc. Sentimental or the dental, it's all pain and it all hurts. Hopefully this might have helped in some way. :)

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« Last Edit: August 17, 2011, 11:02:53 pm by Truean »
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3817 on: August 17, 2011, 11:41:56 pm »

Yeah, thank you, Truean >_<  I can't really tell you how much I appreciate having a gal-pal right now.  It's actually making me all warm and chocolate-fuzzy coated :3


I thought you were... like... my age, at least. Woah.

Man, I have no idea why everyone thinks I'm so much older than I am.  My teachers, the people I meet, etc., for some reason it's pretty much always 30-40 years old.

Anyway, unless one of those many times when I woke up and wondered which year it was had more fruit than I thought, I should still only be 21 =)
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3818 on: August 17, 2011, 11:44:54 pm »

[cuddles nicely] Happy to help hon. I'm always here for that. :) What are girlfriends for?
« Last Edit: August 17, 2011, 11:48:20 pm by Truean »
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« Reply #3819 on: August 17, 2011, 11:48:11 pm »

Vector, I think its because you're always talking about pretty advanced math topics - I thus assume you are a grad student, and the assumption then runs that since grad students tend to be older than 21, you are probably older than 21.

Mind you, I'm only, like... twenty... something...? five? 25? I think thats right. So I figured you were like 23-26 or something.
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« Reply #3820 on: August 17, 2011, 11:49:22 pm »

I agree with Truean; that guy sounds like he was being manipulative and dickish.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3821 on: August 18, 2011, 12:30:19 am »

I have a story that's relevant to the thread's purpose.
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3822 on: August 18, 2011, 12:38:08 am »

Find me a good one and I'll take it back.

What you're basically saying is unless I can find a good book about relationships, such books can't exist?

I seriously doubt all relationship books are crap, although I also believe that the more they base the book on "this is how you should live your life", the worse outcomes they may yield. But that's not the only way to write one, as far as I know.
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« Reply #3823 on: August 18, 2011, 01:04:42 am »

Kay12, assuming they exist, they are statistically rare (at the least), and its probably likely he doesn't even need a good one, so...
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Re: Vector's Chill and Relaxed Progressive Rage Thread
« Reply #3824 on: August 18, 2011, 01:10:07 am »

Her father received 22 years in prison, her mother, 12.

.. Why does she get 10 years less?

Edit: Also, hitting children is illegal here in Denmark. Completely.
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