If it is a disorder, the question becomes "mental or physical." At first, I was somewhat insulted at the idea that my condition is listed in the same book describing schizophrenia. I'm not insane.... But then I realized what was really in play, a stigma against mental illness. Maybe it is a mental illness and rather than be offended about that, it might be better if people weren't so adverse to mental health.... Further, I could see it being at least partially a mood disorder along the lines of depression, just a very specific depression with a very narrow cause.
Yeah, there are some lingering stigmas about psychiatric illness/disorder that seriously impact people's ability to consider issues like this. This is no surprise, considering that through most of human history (or at least Western history), the prevailing thought was that the mentally ill were useless, possessed, bewitched, or damn near inhuman.
On the other hand, these days that paradoxically coexists with the highly-pharmaceutical "Hey doc / Hey patient / I'm feeling bad / Take these pills" super-casual approach to treating serious psychological problems. It's as if we, as a society, are capable of demonizing/dismissing the mentally ill, as well as treat our
own mental problems as if they're super-simple medicable ailments, and I think both of these trends exist for similar reasons (aside from simple history and pharmaceutical lobbying): We, as a culture, are often afraid of approaching these issues head-on and really think about and analyze them. Whether we're just going to our primary care physician (or a psychiatrist) and picking up some anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medications after talking to them for ten minutes flat, or dismissing the problems of the seriously mentally ill as not even worth human(e) consideration, we don't want to actually sit down and consider what's really going on in ours or other people's minds, or what brings them/us to the state where treatment would be necessary.
Perhaps it is alternatively or additionally a physical disorder. While there's nothing wrong with being male, there's something wrong with me having the body of one. It is making me miserable beyond my ability to express and surgery is the only viable remedy.... Given that, I could see it as a physical ailment in whole or in part, but hopefully classification of it as this wouldn't just be catering to the bias against mental illness.... I don't know what to think. On the one hand it might not be a mental disorder; on the other if it is what am I objecting to: that it is included as a mental disorder? Or am I being a bit of a jerk to those with mental illnesses...?
Out of curiosity, how long have you felt this way about your body, and in what
way do you feel that way? Do you feel like there's a situation going on as was described earlier, where you intuitively feel like the parts your brain has mapped out for you simply don't correspond to what's attached, or is it something else? I don't really expect an answer here; I'm aware that may be a little more personal than you want to talk about.
Transsexualism as culture:
Apparently, some cultures have more than 2 sexes. I'd list some example cites but between this being the internet and rule 34, what you search for will not turn up pleasant results. [major blush and sadness at this]. While this might help "cross dressers," "Drag queens," etc, it wouldn't fully help me. My body, not just my wardrobe, needs to change.
That sounds like you're talking about multiple
genders, not multiple sexes. Academically, the distinction here is that sex is biological and gender is more the associated behaviors and social roles.
In summation, it would greatly help me if society would chill out and accept me, but even then, I would still need surgery.
I really wish we lived in some kind of hypothetical future-world where sexual reassignment were, well,
better. Compared to the ideal (the ideal being that the end result is exactly what someone born as that sex would be like), the current state of affairs is woefully lacking, but I don't honestly know how that could improve in the near future, given that it's
slightly difficult to, you know, give people new body parts. The best we can do now, really, is reposition, contort, cut up, and convolute ones that we already have into new configurations that sort of approximate what the real thing is supposed to be like. But hey, it's progress, and if it helps people to stop having to go through that kind of inner turmoil every day, and significantly improves their quality of life for that reason, then I'm all for it.