Thanks for the constructive words guys. I just won my "very first Singed" game. I had better luck this time with my team completely ignoring him as he pushed a lane by himself. Their DPS' stood no chance whatsoever. In exchange for one tower, we'd all but aced the entire team (We eventually killed him afterwards too). It was an hour long game, but I'm quite satisfied. Thank you guys, thank you so much.
Also, I just bought Xin Zhao cause I heard that he's essentially a better combatant than Wukong (Which is my main). I played a few games with him but I couldn't get into that feel, that sensation of total "aaaaahhhhh-yeeeeaaah" when I totally decimate my opponents; Not sure if you guys understand what I'm trying to get at.
With Wukong, I feel as though his laning is incredibly weak, you know, with little to no CC aside from Exhaust if you decide to take it. Xin's laning phase is much easier, allowing him to totally own the lane he's applied himself in. The problem with Xin is that mid-late game, his attacks don't seem to scale very effectively aside from his Three-Talon-Strike (which has a 1 AD ratio), and his ultimate's not as nearly as disruptive as Wukong's. Though, I've had my ass handed to by my Xin wielding several Phantom Dancers and Cooldown reduction, I'm not all too afraid of him during team fights.
While I feel that Xin is stronger in respect to one-on-one, even one-on-two, the smaller skirmishes. I can't help but feel motivated to select Wukong for his disruptive asset. Though, the ULT is more useful in terms of "OH SHIT, KNOCK-UP" instead of the less than modest damage it does. So I'm not quite sure which person to main. I really like the facet of melee burst damage though, but I wouldn't mind a speedy DPS either though.
EDIT: Also, to offer some thought into the above conversation. Tryndamere is a BEAST when built and played correctly. If I'm anywhere near half HP and anymore than a few steps away from my tower, a Tryndamere is almost always lethal. "MOCKING SHOUT!" -Crits for 500 DMG-