So yeah, some friends pointed me towards DF. Downloaded it and the therapist (so much easier) and dove in with just some basic guidance from a friend who's played for a while.
Some problems I've ran into so far are probably trivial but I just can't seem to wrap my head around them.
Military is semi-confusing to me, I've made squads set the training up, made the barracks and archery range etc. So far I've been lucky I suppose, had to handle one actual 'invasion' type deal with some goblins flinging arrows at me. Lost a few dwarves but I won. The problem comes with cleaning up afterwards.
I had built a wall around my entrance with doors, had some bears wandering around killing my pets so I took care of them -- One died in the doorway. I had set up a dump site to get rid of things and set the corpse to dump. Didn't work, so when the goblins came they just walked into my fenced in area and started shooting (Not to mention my wall apparently didn't do anything as I watched arrows just fly through it). After I killed them all, I couldn't seem to get rid of those bodies either even after setting them to be dumped.
Another thing I've had zero luck with is channels and traps. Tried setting up a simplistic pressure plate to a door, a no go. Wouldn't work, noone would use it, ended up dismantling it and throwing my hands up in frustration at the notion.
The main type of info I'd love to get ahold of and talk to people about is using ideas I've read in the wiki and on the forum work. Draw-bridges, flood-traps, pit traps and possibly a danger room.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.