Edit: To clarify the point, when the IRC channel was actually Toady's, I was a moderator, and then when the server was switched, whoever was the new admin decided to ignore Toady's previous wishes. I feel that this in of itself is a good reason to cut ties.
That's because it
wasn't up to Toady at the time. Just because Toady made you an op when the channel was new does not mean that you can take it for granted that you will
always be one, especially not when you cease going there altogether for several months at a time.
The fact of the matter is that Toady hasn't had an active role in the channel for a very long time. If he wanted to do so, then we would oblige, but he basically left it up to us, and I'm pretty sure Captain has technical ownership of it.
In other words, it's not that we "don't respect Toady's wishes", it's that we think
you're being disrespectful in thinking that Toady gave you some sort of divine right to operator status; he didn't. He chose you because you were, for one reason another, a good choice at the time. Then you disappeared, operators came and went, and you showed up again and assumed you'd be given op status again, and when it was declined, you disappeared again.
We have no real reason to say "no" if Toady were to actually request something of us, but in this case, there weren't any standing orders to make sure that anybody assigned operator status when the channel was new would retain that status indefinitely. Hell, that wouldn't even be remotely fair, because then we'd be giving tenure to people because of a years-old decision made by someone who, by his own choice, has no active role in the channel's administration anymore.
Instead of simply assuming you'd get operator status back in a channel you had basically abandoned, you should have stuck around for a while and let it happen a bit more naturally, or at least not gotten all passive-aggressive and ragequit just because you weren't immediately obliged.
It's not important, but I just recall being given moderator status, hanging around that night, and then the next day being told it was revoked because you changed your mind. That's pretty annoying, to say the least.
If it's not important, then why do you seem so vindictive about it? If it's not important to you, then why pass such harsh judgement so long after the fact?
Also, I hadn't heard of you being made an op and then having it withdrawn the next day; who did that? I'm asking around and nobody knows about it, but I can't get hold of Captain at the moment.