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[Vorthon]

I'm in 12th grade (If I don't drop out, gonna be doing a couple extra years), and I just don't care anymore. I'm in love, and I find life isn't worth it without the person I have feelings for. Whenever I see her, my lungs sieze up and the speech center of my brain seems to shut down. I'm honestly considering dropping out of school.

[Il Palazzo]

Man. Love, especially of the unrequitted kind, makes even smart people act like idiots.

[G-Flex]

I'm in love, and I find life isn't worth it without the person I have feelings for. Whenever I see her, my lungs sieze up and the speech center of my brain seems to shut down. I'm honestly considering dropping out of school.

You need to step back and consider this rationally. It can take a long time to learn this, but if that person didn't exist, you'd eventually find love elsewhere, and the same thing applies if she were to disappear tomorrow. You cannot invest your entire life on one person like that, especially when you aren't even in a position where that is remotely possible.

You're being subjected to teenage infatuation right now, and it's causing you to think very irrationally. I'm not saying "LOVE IS TERRIBLE", just that you can't allow it to fuck up your life the way it evidently is. You shouldn't destroy yourself over an adolescent crush.

[Frajic]

Dropping out of school will help you be with her... how? Just keep on going, and(if, as I assume, you're not together with her) try contacting her somehow. I'm no expert in this area(I'm 14 and don't even have a girlfriend, so that's pretty obvious), so I'll leave that for others to help you with.

Alternatively, go with the first suggested approach.

[Vorthon]

I'm in love, and I find life isn't worth it without the person I have feelings for. Whenever I see her, my lungs sieze up and the speech center of my brain seems to shut down. I'm honestly considering dropping out of school.

You need to step back and consider this rationally. It can take a long time to learn this, but if that person didn't exist, you'd eventually find love elsewhere, and the same thing applies if she were to disappear tomorrow. You cannot invest your entire life on one person like that, especially when you aren't even in a position where that is remotely possible.

You're being subjected to teenage infatuation right now, and it's causing you to think very irrationally. I'm not saying "LOVE IS TERRIBLE", just that you can't allow it to fuck up your life the way it evidently is. You shouldn't destroy yourself over an adolescent crush.

It's more than a crush. If she were to disappear? I'd most likely end my own life.

[Tellemurius]

really? you have no reason to pull that trigger for that. tell me this, how the fuck will you provide for her if you cut your education right now when you are so close? im still telling you to confront your feelings to her.

[Taricus]

Don't kill yourself over it, hell don't even harm yourself.

Just try and do it, slowly.

[Vorthon]

really? you have no reason to pull that trigger for that. tell me this, how the fuck will you provide for her if you cut your education right now when you are so close? im still telling you to confront your feelings to her.

My feelings for her are keeping from getting anything done in school, anyways. I figure, why bother if I'm not gonna get anything done anyways?

[G-Flex]

I'm in love, and I find life isn't worth it without the person I have feelings for. Whenever I see her, my lungs sieze up and the speech center of my brain seems to shut down. I'm honestly considering dropping out of school.

You need to step back and consider this rationally. It can take a long time to learn this, but if that person didn't exist, you'd eventually find love elsewhere, and the same thing applies if she were to disappear tomorrow. You cannot invest your entire life on one person like that, especially when you aren't even in a position where that is remotely possible.

You're being subjected to teenage infatuation right now, and it's causing you to think very irrationally. I'm not saying "LOVE IS TERRIBLE", just that you can't allow it to fuck up your life the way it evidently is. You shouldn't destroy yourself over an adolescent crush.

It's more than a crush. If she were to disappear? I'd most likely end my own life.

More than a crush or not, nobody is worth ending your life over. A lot of people think that way about their first loves/girlfriends/boyfriends, but it just doesn't work that way. There are other people in the world, and a variety of fulfilling relationships you could potentially form with them, all unique. You didn't think I was a complete mess after my first break-up? Of course I was, and so were a lot of other people I know. But we move on, learn from it, and become more able to appreciate and form relationships. Each person and relationship is unique, but your capacity to be with people and form those relationships is not unique to this one girl.

[Errol]

I've been through sudden bouts of emotions, even though nothing as large as you might experience, and my advice: Eventually, no matter how harsh it may be in the first moments, eventually you will get over it, and the life goes on. I'm not ruling the chance of being scarred for life, but life is a wonderful gift. Enjoy every single second of it, for you do not know what comes after it.

You should certainly not drop out of school. Even if you have zero motivation, chances are you can still cruise through the classes and at least finish school regularily. Don't shit on your future with no idea what to do next.

But first try asking her out, damnit. You can do whatever you want afterwards, but if you just wait and let the chance pass to ask her out... well, she is probably not going to do it herself, and then your ways part, and you feel crappy et cetera et cetera.

[Tellemurius]

really? you have no reason to pull that trigger for that. tell me this, how the fuck will you provide for her if you cut your education right now when you are so close? im still telling you to confront your feelings to her.

My feelings for her are keeping from getting anything done in school, anyways. I figure, why bother if I'm not gonna get anything done anyways?

do not take my fucking path, im literally fighting to stay in college because i failed high school, i have a diploma but my GPA is 1.3

you will not make it man if you can't help yourself, if you really love her you got to get a education too if you want to provide for her future.

[Vorthon]

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I just can't function on my own anymore...

[Something Evil]

you will not make it man if you can't help yourself, if you really love her you got to get a education too if you want to provide for her future.

What he said.
And I've mentioned this before, work up the nerve to talk to her. What's stopping you? I mean really stopping you, aside from your own bouts of inferiority complex?
Does she have the school jocks leering at her and... discouraging... anyone else?

[Vorthon]

And I've mentioned this before, work up the nerve to talk to her. What's stopping you? I mean really stopping you, aside from your own bouts of inferiority complex?

The fact that I am inferior...

Does she have the school jocks leering at her and... discouraging... anyone else?

No, not really.

[Tellemurius]

if i got to find you IRL and kick your ass i will.