It was going that way since post one. Interesting fact: Racist jokes are on the 'instant evil' list. You can joke about anything but a minority group, because they are under the assuption that everybody hates minority groups, and therefor any joke is a personal attack. As a straight white male aged 18 to 35, I get a fair amount of jokes slung at me for those things, but not once have they ever offended me, because I know that a joke is a freindly form of communitaction. However, were I gay, then any gay jokes by somebody outside the gay community would be an attack, something I should be up in arms about.
If you havn't picked up on the satire yet, I'm steriotyping all minority groups. Most people in minority groups are ok with small jokes at there expence, on the basis that most normal humans are ok with small jokes at there expence. The point of the post is don't feel so bad about small, meanless things, nobody else does.
And if you are one of the few in a minority group who feels offended, and would say that I shouldn't dismiss such 'insults' because 'I don't know how it feels' then you are right. I do not know how it feels, I can guess, but I will never be sure. Maybe there is some genetic trait in people with more melanon in there skin that causes some reaction to certain words and I will never know! But when I can joke around with my freinds, but can;t do the same with you, it singles you out as not being a freind.