Okay, with the rate that things are being posted, I really hope I'll have enough time to say what I think before things go crazy. I also apologize in advance for not reading the full thread, so if someone already covered the contents of my post, see the aforementioned apology. I promise I'll read it all after I post this.
I've got some definite personal opinions about this, but I don't think I have enough time to type it all out. Hell, I could probably write paragraphs and paragraphs about how I feel about these forums, that I feel it's a wonderful community, and that it's one of the few places I just want to visit to see what's happening with everybody and not just the game itself. I won't go there unless I have to because by the time I ever get to post, there'll be 15 new replies I'll have to read through.
I have a proposition.
It seems one of the major back-and-forths here is whether or not to have third party mods. True, ToadyOne and ThreeToe need more help. Things happen and they don't need to slave over us being silly, or watch like mothers over children who are riled up and calling names, worried that something will give and noses will break. They don't need the stress, and we sure as hell don't need to give it to them.
But we do. And we will, simply because we're human, and we are given at times to be egocentric. If we considered at our every action, "Will this adversely affect ToadyOne and ThreeToe?", this would make everything far simpler, but I doubt that any one of us can say, with an exact certainty, that they have done this. There will be times when someone just wants to make a silly remark, or add in their two cents on a topic that was spawned in discussion but relatively away from the original post's intent. There will be times when we simply don't think, or don't consider.
There will be times when we get on one another's nerves. Some of us will hate eachother, and I'm sure some of us already have a deep-seated dislike of some of our others. That's the price of having a community.
Communities seek to have moderators. Having moderators breaks up the community, as has already been stated. Having moderators requires a rigid structure, or else people feel bullied. Again, this has been stated.
What I haven't seen stated is another possibility. Moderators that do not have any actual power. What I mean is, these are the watchdogs of the community, selected by some means, whether by their peers or by the Word of Toady, that scope out trouble. Trouble is things that definitely violate the already-established rules that no one seems to be complaining about, because they are relatively lax. Trouble is also a sense that things are getting out of hand. The catch is that there doesn't need to be a set of rigid rules for this. People can more or less tell when things are getting a bit too personal. This is when these 'moderators' show up, and do something like:
This is my mod voice. I am giving [x-user] a warning for the following behavior:
Antagonizing [y-user].
I apologize for my interruptance, but I felt I was obligated to give this warning as a member of my station. Please, keep things calm, but do carry on.
People will know that this person was appointed specifically to do that function, and they should respect that. They should understand that they don't need to cause problems for the caretakers of the community.
So what happens when things continue to get out of hand?
X-user, you have already been given a warning. I regret to inform you that your continued behavior has prompted me to report your actions to ToadyOne and ThreeToe. I hope that amends can be made in the meantime, and I hope that you are forgiven for your actions and are not as prone to this sort of behavior as a continued member of this community.
Essentially, the appointed mods work as the report button now, but they filter out things. They serve as a buffer. Warning: You are approaching the line we have drawn. Please ensure that you do not cross it. Warning: You have crossed the line, and you face judgement.
Obviously the plan is to never get to that second warning. Users will have time to back off, and if the parties who were subject to the warning given feel that it wasn't the tone intended, they can appeal the moderator through PM. Heck, even the warning can be given in PM if it needs be.
These moderators will be selected for their personal sense of when they should break out their mod voice. If they are overzealous, or let their personal problems get in the way, then it will be reflected. The community may complain, but ultimately the word gets up to the top. If ToadyOne and ThreeToe keep getting reports from one of the mods that tons of users they've seen are doing bad, and when they investigate and it seems it's not as much cause for concern, well, they no longer need to be a moderator, because they aren't very good at it.
This helps to avoid a rigit code of conduct and allows itself to be self-moderating. The only hurdle to get over is just who is right for the job, which, as I said, the wrong people for the job will weed themselves out.
That's my proposition as a middle-ground for this sort of thing. It relieves some frustration at the top, gives some community members a sense that justice is occuring on the forums, others that they are actually serving the community to establish that justice, and it keeps those who fear total structure, at the least, content.
The other issue that seems to be popping up is that the "Lower Forums" are a horrible representation of the community. If that turns out to be the bigger problem, I guess I'll have to go into my personal spiel on that that I tried to avoid.
However, if people feel that my idea is a good one, would it be nice to create a new thread about it, where discussion on it specifically can be carried out? Of course, if there isn't much support, then it isn't worth it. Just my shot in the dark at trying to 'fix' the situation.
FAKE-EDIT: I see ToadyOne has posted, which really takes away a lot of the argument for my post. I'll post it anyway, just to see if anyone likes the idea.