Ding ding ding, we have a winner! Wicca it is
Really? You were shy about Wicca?
Also, I didn't think Wiccans believed in reincarnation
Not shy, just didn't feel like creating unnecessary conflict around it. Not exactly the most popular of religions, especially around fundies (WICCA IS DEVIL WORSHIP HERP DERP). But yeah, lots of unnecessary baggage that comes with it.
And yes, reincarnation. It's generally accepted in Wicca.
Aren't female Wiccans called witches?
It depends. I don't know much about Wicca in general (I've mostly just been reading into it, don't have any actual stuff for it), but from what I've read, it seems to depend on the person. Some people call Wicca "Witchcraft" or "The Craft", but it's generally inaccurate. Wicca refers to a religion, and witchcraft refers to a magical practice, to paraphrase a nice
site, full of information. I recommend the Wicca 101/FAQ thing for some quick reading if you want. Witch is a gender-neutral term too. But generally speaking, not all witches are Wiccan, and not all Wiccans are witches.
I didn't think Wiccans believed in reincarnation
Me neither, which is why I was stumped by one of the more common New Age choices. Wikipedia seems to back him up though.
Why would you be ashamed of being a Wiccan anyway?
I believe the appropriate time to drink is never (you can drink if you want, but it's just stupid to do it) and marriage is unnecessary (just a formality), so where does that put me?
Escaping our society's norms (or accepting them on your own terms) isn't an all-or-nothing process. So long as you understand why you're searching for meaning in religion then I can't really accuse you of falling in line.
I search for meaning in religion because... hmm. Well, it's because of belief really. I have no real reason to believe what I do, I just... do. I can't really explain it. But I just feel that Wicca is... right. It feels right. It's a weird feeling too, kind of... warm. Christianity never gave me that. I never felt a connection to the world through Christianity, it just felt empty. So I guess I'm searching for a deeper meaning and understanding of the world, and myself. Mostly myself though. Religion should be a personal journey.
Oh I know he's male. I was just wondering. You don't get many Wicca where I live.
I couldn't sling a dead cat without hitting a Wiccan during the course of my life. Seriously, I've always had at least one within an arms-throw for the last... ten years.
Never met another neopagan, let alone another Wiccan. You'd think there'd be more around one of the greenest cities in the world, but nope. Maybe I'm just not looking hard enough. It's a solitary religion though, so that explains most of it.