Yes, a saddiningly large number of people do not understand that others can have a ligitimate outlook that is not theirs.
I think there is a valid difference between people who can't handle the possibility of others believing something different and people who don't want others to suffer the worst fate of their belief system. One is a good person with good intentions and the other is just a prick. I have sympathy for those whose reason for doing what they do is for the sake of others and not their own mental comfort.
Like the difference between an atheist who wants to split religion from government in order to make sure religion doesn't get corrupt from the power it could harness and an atheist that wants religions to fail because they are stupid. One wants the world to be a better place, for atheists and theists. The other one just dislikes these religious nutjobs.
What does this mean? Granted trying to convert people is still an issue, but understand that there is a good reason to these people for trying.
I don't care what their intent is. Every once in a while, I'm sleeping peacfuly on a saturday morning, one of the two days of the week where I can do so. And all of a sudden-
*KNOCK* *KNOCK* *KNOCK* Once again, one of the local churches is trying to recruit me. I don't care if they want to help me or they can't stand someone not being in their church, because
they're waking me up on a saturday morning and it's
annoying as hell. I can't get that lost sleep back. Their intent means nothing, the outcome is still the same. That's just one example, but you get the idea. Just the same, if someone wants to reinforce the Seperation of Church and State, I couldn't care less if they do so because they know the inherent problems in theocratic governments or they want to see religions flounder and die without state support (which is by no means the outcome, religions are kept alive by countless factors), they are still helping the country.
I left Christianity four years ago, and I'm simply
tired of christians trying to get me to go back. I'm through with wasting my time reasoning with people trying to convert me. It's draining. I don't bother with the distinction between the benevolent-intentioned and the malevolent-intentioned anymore, because it ultimately dosen't matter.