Yea I feel retarded, just did a search and another person asked the same thing a month ago lol. Figured it out, my main thing though is every time I save it saves a new "file" so when I go back to load instead of 2 saves I then have 3 saves. And it's confusing on which one to pick since there is no date next to the saved-games(well in-game dates, but still in the same year and season atm with all 3). So I had accidentally chosen the wrong save point just now when I started the game back up so was wanting to exit without saving and reload the correct option. Don't know if that makes since, according to the other thread though the only way to exit without saving is to end task(Also note I have never played any rogue-like games, I just randomly stumbled upon this game this morning when browsing Minecraft forums and seeing a DF map maker lol then started looking into it).
So far shockingly I love it, when I first saw the ASCII I was thinking lmao no way. But then started reading the tutorials out of curiosity since this game seems so popular and had over 400 people logged in on the forums, and got hooked after realizing what the game was about and how detailed it really is.