Truean, are you in the closet as a gay man with this guy?
That's.... subject to misinterpretation....
If you mean "does he know you only like men/wanna be a girl?"
Unfortunately, yes, by necessity, not choice.
This is another reason it's impossible to expect gays to stay closeted forever and absolutely. Think about it at the beginning, I appear to be a guy, hanging out with his girlfriend. This raises questions from the boyfriends of my female friends like, "who the fuck is that guy I'm going to kill if you and he are together/cheating on me?" Her pretty much required response is, "relax he's gay." Or, at least it's something like that. Same thing happens the close friends or parents of women I hang out with. Sooner or later they want to know who the hell this guy is that she's hanging out with, etc, etc. My friends have to tell their boyfriends something or they'll think she's cheating on them or whatever because she's spending a lot of time with this guy.... [sigh]. Sometimes the parents/boyfriends don't like the idea of their daughter/girlfriend hanging out with a gay/trans/whatever and I've been forbidden from seeing a few of my friends on that basis, which hurts like hell to be honest.
She told him because she kinda had to (or else how was she going to explain spending nights alone with me curled up on the couch watching movies?). I lose more friends that way....