I think my girlfriend's boyfriend has vastly different expectations of the amount of time they should spend together than she does.
I come over, and she knows I like wearing cute outfits, so she tosses a summer dress at me, I slip it on and we watch TV together on the couch. Her boyfriend comes through the door. He came over and was not amused.... "What's HE doing here?" She even called him on it a bit, but mostly witha look. She sorta gave him a shrug while tilting her head at me and looking at him a lil wide eyed. I sorta just slumped into the couch a bit.... It was kind of an implied, "really, how much gayer do you want for me to hang out with before you stop being upset "he's" a "boy?"
I suppose he might have seen me as an odd little third wheel and she just wanted time with a girlfriend or whatever. He's said some mean things before but she sorta glared at him. I have to say I appreciate her protection
. I think we're both sorta.... I don't wanna say emotionally needy, because I'm not sure the term applies, but we both have the comfort area with some light cuddles (I get that you prolly don't do that, and that's cool). I listen to everything going on with her and she lets me wear her clothes. Her boyfriend seems furious at this; not sure why. I really wonder if he would pull this if her friend were born a girl.... He might, actually, but I'd say a.) Less likely and less loudly, and b.) she'd have more ground somehow to say "she's my friend."
You'd think people would want more well rounded partners. Maybe there might be a problem between them and he wants to be more intimate (not like that, you know what I mean and it isn't that in this instance) with her and feels she has that with me but not him. I dunno though. I'm not entirely sure there isn't an intimacy you can have with other girls that you can't have with guys. Assuming I'm lucky enough to be considered a girl....yeah.
She'll try to talk about her feelings to him and he's sorta unsure of what to say. LIke he's not consciously ignoring her, but he has no clue at all. I don't know if she can have that type of connection with him. Meanwhile I am somehow caught in the middle.
So, he's jealous of his girlfriend spending time with the clearly gay (I'm in a dress shyly sitting on the couch at this point) friend? What... what does he think is gonna happen here?