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[EuchreJack]

The Mafia Championship started, so that might account for some increase in activity.  People wanting to check out our Champion.  But that sort of data log doesn't really fit.

I sent a PM to Toady, linking to this discussion.

[Vector]

Yeah, I doubt it's Mafia or I'd also expect an influx of people signing up for our open game

[Iduno]

What is the best way of contacting Toady do you think? It seems like this isn't something that should wait.

I think sacrificing a goat is the traditional way.

[dragdeler]

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[pisskop]

Nothing is more shocking to me than logging into my alt account to use youtube for something.  Just  . . .  completely different experience wrt recommendations. youtube really puts me into a bubble.

[bloop_bleep]

So, I am in a bit of a pickle, and so obviously I've decided to ask my favorite bunch of internet randos for advice.

(Please do not quote, this post will likely be nuked.)

Remember the girl I mentioned who asked me on a date? Well we chatted a little and met up over facetime or discord a few times, but lately we've hardly been chatting and having set up a meeting in what seems like a month. She made it clear to a mutual friend that we're just "talking" instead of "dating" and we haven't been intimate at all. We of course hadn't agreed to be exclusive or boyfriend/girlfriend. To be honest, I'm not sure if I'm feeling it at the moment? I mean she seems like an interesting person, and she isn't unattractive, but I'm not sure if we fit together. I feel like maybe if I get to know her better maybe I'll feel more romance.

Now remember the girl I mentioned having a crush on before? Well, it seems she might have a renewed interest in me. We were gently flirting not too long ago (myself I was doing it just for fun), and she seemed to respond positively. So I pushed the flirting a bit more, and she still responded positively, perhaps flirted back. Then I made the flirting really obvious, and she flirted back. This was mainly over text by the way. Bit interesting. Bit confusing.

I wonder should I have flirted with this girl while I was "talking" with this other girl? I mean we haven't decided we were exclusive, we weren't meeting up or communicating for a while, and if she flirted with another boy I honestly wouldn't care myself. We were basically indistinguishable from two friends talking. But I'd like to hear your opinions.

Secondly, what should I do? The situation with the original girl I had a crush on is just complicated at this point. I don't know about delving into that mess. Were the recent chats even anything? Was it maybe just playful? Should I maybe schedule another date with the new girl and try to have some more conversation and continue that line of communication? I thought about breaking off with the new girl but I don't know if I should do it. It seems like I mesh together better with the first girl, and I don't think it's just a physical attraction thing. If the other girl looked like her I'd still think I like talking with the first girl more.

Thoughts?

Also AP tests are tiring.

[NJW2000]

I'm no life coach but it really doesn't sound like you owe the person you're "just talking" with anything at all. If you're still in the indistinguishable-from-friendship stage, you're unlikely to really do something wrong.

It does sound like the thing you're hoping to be told to do is go for it with the person you're more interested in, which in this case means you probably should do that. Just be prepared for disappointment and try not to feel let down if it goes nowhere. Plenty of people flirt while having no intention of going further, it's an activity in itself.

I don't know anything about your life, so take the above with a massive pinch of salt. I'd advise you not to stop talking to either of them whatever happens, though.

[wierd]

... Always with the "Girl/Boyfriend trouble" questions.

Questions I can never meaningfully answer!  BAH HUMBUG!

[Ulfarr]

About the "drifting apart" girl, is there any effort on her part to keep in touch with you or is it one sided? Personaly I wouldn't put too much faith in that "we are just talking, not dating" that she told your mutual friend. Firstly there are many reasons why one would choose to withhold such informations and secondly things like this can change rather quickly. Also I think it's equaly, if not more, important to question yourself, if *you* want to pursue a romantic relationship with said girl because if you don't feel like it, why bother?

As far as advice goes I'm with NJW2000, it's too early to commit that much in any of those girls so keep talking to both of them and let it play out.

[ArchimedesWojak]

[methylatedspirit]

Those are words. I am fully capable of parsing it. I have the abstract syntax tree fully constructed and checked. It crashes with "?" as the only displayed error on interpretation. I... (confused noises).

That is a thing of... beauty. It's beyond comprehension. Why are Anne Frank and Goku sitting next to each other, both with clearly-visible "fuck me"-eyes? What does this mean? Why is a Holocaust victim staring longingly at an anime character? Isn't she 15, and Goku way more than that? What kinda crack ship is this? What kind of drugs did the maker of the video take?

This whole thing raises more questions than it answers. I'd look it up, but I fear that I'd get myself on a watchlist for even looking up such cursed things. Also, 426K views, now that's just icing on the cake. People watched this thing.

Edit: Also, the context isn't helping. I'm led to guess that the context is that bloop_bleep is actually a creepy old man, and he's dating 15-year-olds. That's just adding a whole new layer of WTF to that.

[ArchimedesWojak]

Edit: Also, the context isn't helping. I'm led to guess that the context is that bloop_bleep is actually a creepy old man, and he's dating 15-year-olds. That's just adding a whole new layer of WTF to that.

Nope. I found this on twitter, What's going on with bloop_bleep

[methylatedspirit]

Check the posts above you. It's the sudden crash between "bloop_bleep asks for relationship advice" and "Goku staring at 15-year-old with fuck-me eyes" that's messing with me. The crash implies context. What you've done there is unintentional Kuleshov effect. That is perfect cursed timing.

[TamerVirus]

Oh Goku x Anne Frank.....
Doesn't it end with Goku fighting against Super Saiyan Adolf Hitler?
Classic weird fanfiction

[wierd]

The schadenfruede of Anne-Frank banging The Ubermensc does not occur to anyone?