EDITED RECENTLYYeah, No. He went out of his way to specifically say that he's writing this letter not as the leader of all Christianity, or as someone who is giving an order, but as an old man in jail. The first third of the letter is him letting him know he's not trying to strong-arm him.
Additionally, it's not because he's "like a son to him". You've altered the wording, and therefore changed the meaning. It says "who is my son, who became my son while I was in chains". He didn't adopt the man, so what does this mean? Older translations even use the phrasing "
begat in my bonds". He's is
very clearly referring him as a new Christian, aka born again, aka easily the most common euphemism for converting to Christianity.
The idea that Paul would ask his friend to free this man becuase it's the right thing to do. "no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you,
both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord." He does not simply appeal to him based on Onesimus' new status as a Christian, or as a person he cares for, but simply as a human being. Even the mere sentiment given here is in direct opposition to the concept of slavery.
Paul even goes so far out of his way to offer to take his punishment for him if any is warranted, and offers to pay his debts if any exist. These are not the actions or beliefs of a man who is supportive or even indifferent of slavery. And please recall this is not a letter aside from the Bible that show the private thoughts of Paul. This is deliberately included in the Bible, a book intended as the set in stone guidelines to the rest of Christianity into perpetuity.
And no, I don't think there's an argument to be had in that a person who visibly does not follow the tenets of Christianity is not, in fact, a Christian. Therefore the concept of Christianity inherently supporting slavery is in fact a filly valid and direct argument that a person who is aware of the
fact that Christianity does not support slavery or racism and still supports slavery or racism is not in fact a Christian.
Finally, Jesus Christ the historical figure did not found Christianity. Paul did, based on visions he experienced on the road to Damascus some time after Jesus' death. While Christianity is based on the teachings and ostensible divinity of Jesus, Christianity as a religion as most of itself owed to Paul. He directly wrote (at least) half of the New Testament. Paul's feelings on things such as slavery as he put forth in the sole guide to the will of God on earth should be taken as direct guidelines for Christianity as a whole.
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Palazzo is your real friend, don't Google this at work XD.
Those are the rules for the Us, not the Them. You know, it's by the same nonsense that Islam calls itself the Religion of Peace. It's totally the Religion of Peace, nevermind that it was founded on the waging of war upon everywhere it could. Christianity is totally the Religion of Love, nevermind that it was founded on genocide, hatred and bigotry.
It was founded based on the teaching of a man who hated violence to the point of healing the people hauling him off to be crucified. It was founded by a another man who went from being one of the most violent people in the bible (read about Stephen's stoning, the description of pre-Christian Paul/Saul hauling people out of their homes) to the man who wrote this:
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them…Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God…To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
He credits this directly to his experience with Jesus.
“But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life.”
We can easily see the character of this man and apply the context to his other writings. I'm drawing conclusions based on context and research, not re-wordings of snippets of verses.
Again, you literally need to forego research and rely on secondhand information in order to come to the conclusions that you are putting forth.
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