So... I have a family taco/burrito recipe that's received fairly good responses from the folks who've eaten it, including my girlfriend who is very enthusiastic about the dish. I used to make it every so often, but it's 2-3 hours of work and I tend to be pretty worn out by just the shopping, so after the initial "I am going to impress this person so that they'll like me" phase of the relationship, I started doing it less.
I did however ask her one time (while I was making it) if she wanted me to tell her the recipe, so she could make it if she wanted some on the days where I wasn't feeling up to the task. She said "No". Err, alright.
Later, after having made it a few more times (and having been asked to make it for several of them), I mentioned that I'd be open to making it more often if she was willing to help out (70% of the recipe is basically just a fuckload of chopping, plus a little peeling). She whimsically chirped "No". Okay, really feeling motivated to make the thing here.
Fast forward a few years. It's been ages since the last time I made the dish, since I've been perpetually tired and overwhelmed the past couple years and I don't really feel like putting in that little extra "oomph" to pamper a person I've grown to resent (which, well, could honestly mean both my girlfriend and myself). A couple days ago, out of the blue, she mentioned that it's been a really long time since we made tacos and how much she really misses the dish and wants to have it again sometime soon.
"You should really write down the recipe too, so I can learn how to make it".
I, uh... Welp. Didn't really know how to respond to that.