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[Haspen]

Dark chocolate.

Truly, this should've been a warning sign for u ;v

[Rose]

Want devil's arsefluff? Try some asafoetida (mmm, fetid ass...), also commonly known as "devil's dung".


Smells pretty horrid, provides a rich and subtle flavor to dishes. Very important Indian spice.

Excuse me what the fuck I will fite you.

[Doomblade187]

Dark chocolate.

Truly, this should've been a warning sign for u ;v

Gotta agree here.

Y'know the idyllic concept of a love between two people, where one person doesn't like pickles and the other person will eat the excess pickles?

Yeah, that doesn't happen. You just order everything to be explicitly without pickles because the one person doesn't want them. Same goes for mushrooms. And fish. Basically any kind of seaweed/seafood. Dark chocolate. Olives. Corn. Beer.

Yeah, it should happen though. It is a real thing and unless she is allergic, you should not limit your food choices.

[Hanslanda]

Y'know the idyllic concept of a love between two people, where one person doesn't like pickles and the other person will eat the excess pickles?

Yeah, that doesn't happen. You just order everything to be explicitly without pickles because the one person doesn't want them. Same goes for mushrooms. And fish. Basically any kind of seaweed/seafood. Dark chocolate. Olives. Corn. Beer.

Gotta say man, there's literally almost four billion other women on the planet. Just saying.

[Rose]

Me and my wife both hate raisins, so it's great.

[Dunamisdeos]

Scriver means toxic, as in 'lacking essential health foods such as kale, mushrooms, onions, fish, or dark chocolate'.

Or Beer.

Also that is a common abusive control tactic.

[dragdeler]

-snip-

[hector13]

I don't particularly enjoy mundane mushrooms straight so hey.
I'll usually only eat them if I'm trying to seem like a fun guy,

Wrong thread, mate.

[Kagus]

Y'know the idyllic concept of a love between two people, where one person doesn't like pickles and the other person will eat the excess pickles?

Yeah, that doesn't happen. You just order everything to be explicitly without pickles because the one person doesn't want them. Same goes for mushrooms. And fish. Basically any kind of seaweed/seafood. Dark chocolate. Olives. Corn. Beer.

Gotta say man, there's literally almost four billion other women on the planet. Just saying.

And I'd be better off even without any of them... But I'd need to find a place to live that has some semblance of privacy and that I can afford on disability, as well as round up all my shit and go through the process of moving again. Not to mention the really big issue of actually making the break and not blaming myself for absolutely everything. Hell, I don't even shower every week, because I don't have the energy for it...

Yeah, it should happen though. It is a real thing and unless she is allergic, you should not limit your food choices.

Now that we eat separate dinners it's less of a big deal, but beer (including various non-alcoholics) is firmly frowned upon (or dry-heaved upon, as the case may be) and bringing fish into the house is pretty much just a no-go unless it's exceptionally tame (e.g., the "fish" in fish and chips). She's by her own admission somewhat traumatized from too many obligatory fish dinners ordained by a domineering mother when she was growing up.

[scriver]

Y'know the idyllic concept of a love between two people, where one person doesn't like pickles and the other person will eat the excess pickles?

Yeah, that doesn't happen. You just order everything to be explicitly without pickles because the one person doesn't want them. Same goes for mushrooms. And fish. Basically any kind of seaweed/seafood. Dark chocolate. Olives. Corn. Beer.

Gotta say man, there's literally almost four billion other women on the planet. Just saying.

And I'd be better off even without any of them... But I'd need to find a place to live that has some semblance of privacy and that I can afford on disability, as well as round up all my shit and go through the process of moving again. Not to mention the really big issue of actually making the break and not blaming myself for absolutely everything. Hell, I don't even shower every week, because I don't have the energy for it...

From how it appears by your postings here, though, it doesn't appear that living with her is an energy boost rather than an energy drain.

[Teneb]

Y'know the idyllic concept of a love between two people, where one person doesn't like pickles and the other person will eat the excess pickles?

Yeah, that doesn't happen. You just order everything to be explicitly without pickles because the one person doesn't want them. Same goes for mushrooms. And fish. Basically any kind of seaweed/seafood. Dark chocolate. Olives. Corn. Beer.

Gotta say man, there's literally almost four billion other women on the planet. Just saying.

And I'd be better off even without any of them... But I'd need to find a place to live that has some semblance of privacy and that I can afford on disability, as well as round up all my shit and go through the process of moving again. Not to mention the really big issue of actually making the break and not blaming myself for absolutely everything. Hell, I don't even shower every week, because I don't have the energy for it...

From how it appears by your postings here, though, it doesn't appear that living with her is an energy boost rather than an energy drain.

Further, it does seem like you have no privacy where you are since everything you do is frowned upon. You are in an abusive relationship. Breaking off from those is hard, but you should go through with it for your own good.

[Il Palazzo]

Oh, for fucks sake. He's not in an abusive relationship. He's chronically depressed, and that makes him a royal pain to live with. It's not his fault, but he's not a victim either.

[Egan_BW]

...I think it's impossible to really be sure of either of those conclusions with the information that we have available.

[Doomblade187]

...I think it's impossible to really be sure of either of those conclusions with the information that we have available.

I think that we can agree that the relationship is bad for him at least.

Kagus, you should discuss with your therapist.

[Kagus]

I have and do. Basically, current focus is on trying to build me up enough to the point where I can actually get around to leaving. And attempting to take heart in "If it gets too bad, that will provide you with the motivation and energy required to leave".

And yeah, I wouldn't call this abusive. I really don't believe that she's aware of half the things she does, it's just a failure in communications and expectations for each other. And that we really just don't match each other very well, despite superficial evidence to the contrary.