In the past three years, the emperor of francia revoked the duchies of my 3 kinsmen left in france, my kinsman on the throne of byzantium suffered a triple war from various vassals and got usurped off his throne(could have helped him, but I was too busy snatching duchies from his rebelling vassals),and my kinsman on that throne of spain (asturia, I think), who meanwhile had united almost the whole of it, is facing another triple war from claiming vassals right after he was utterly beaten in a holy war he started against the muslim quarter of spain (just sent him 700 gp but not sure that'll be enough),and my kinsman on the throne of tukerstan is facing a claim war from his only duke who controls 3 of the 4 counties left to turkestan (but he's the same religion as me and my neighbor, so I'll be able to help this one).
my dynasty is being wiped off the face of the world
in other news, the huge persian empire on my doorstep somehow decided to convert to the shia religion, which is not helping at all since the huge arabian empire on the other bit of my doorstep is shia too, so they might stop fighting each other and turn their attention to me
and the abbasid empire finally came back from the west, wiped the remnant of myaphisite abyssinia and now controls almost the whole of egypt. luckily they are still sunni, hopefully that'll provoke some friction with the other neighbours.
and to top it all, for the first time in 200 years, my heir is an utter incompetent, despite elective monarchy (I had a total of 8 sons and daugther, and the only not-too-retarded one died in battle aged 19
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so, yeah...what's the name of that other game again ? Dark Days Ahead ?