well the suplement rules i realy want is from the complete mage so
FEY HERITAGE [HERITAGE]
You are descended from creatures native to the fey realms. You
are naturally resistant to the most common effects produced
by your ancestors.
Prerequisite: Nonlawful alignment.
Benefit: You gain a +3 bonus on Will saving throws against
enchantment effects.
FEY SKIN [HERITAGE]
Your fey heritage guards you against all weapons except those
crafted from the dreaded cold iron.
Prerequisites: Nonlawful alignment, Fey Heritage.
Benefit: You gain damage reduction (overcome by cold
iron) equal to 1 + the number of feats you have that list Fey
Heritage as a prerequisite (including such feats that you
take after gaining this one). For example, if you have Fey
Skin and Fey Presence, you would have damage reduction
3/cold iron.
This value stacks with any similar damage reduction you
might have from your type, subtype, race, or class, but not
from other sources, such as spells or magic items.
Those are the two things i had at lvl 3, i also wanted to use a coupple of supliment spells, most notibly Luminous Armour, from Book of Exalted Deeds (Target good creature gets armour equivilent to a breastplate(no spell failure or anything like that) for 1 hour per my levels and melee attack against them are at -4, when the spell is over the caster takes 2 strength damage)
and i eventualy want to take the wild soul prestege class as well