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[Knit tie]

A certain avatar that I've seen a few times on the forums springs to mind. Have you considered snakes?

Also:

pretends to be an ally

A what now?

An ally. Someone who is sympathetic to a group of oppressed people and is willing to help them out of oppression. i.e. Someone who identifies as straight, but helps support gay rights.

Not to mention the other guy who's a total misogynist with no filter and pretends to be an ally even though he says some of the most homophobic and transphobic shit and somehow gets away with it. This guy has Gonorrhea and quite possibly HIV, and posts personal ads on Craigslist about how he wants someone to "gag on his big ginger dick," therefor knowingly spreading STDs. At one point we haqd a house meeting talking about sexuality and gender identity, and he asks the presenter, "Hey what do you know about 'tantric sex'?" When we tried to tell him sex and sexuality were two different things, he went "Is it, though? is it really?" Basically, I'm living with someone who's just an idiot, and someone who is a straight up dickhead.

This guy. I hate him, and I have to live with him. He watches the Disney Channel and E News and acts like a 14 year old. He thinks "swag" is cool. He acts super flamboyant and effeminate and swears up and down that he's straight and has a girlfriend. His laugh is like nails on a chalkboard and I can hear it on the other side of the house with headphones on. He thinks everything he says is funny and insightful and never shuts up even when people are talking. Either that or he's not paying attention at all and tells you to repeat everything you say back to him about 3 times. The worst part is that if I tell him what I really think of him, I'll be considered an instigator and get in trouble, and I'm already on thin ice with all of these rule changes anyway.
I just want him out of here so that he's not a constant assault on my senses and I can enjoy being at home again.

What's an instigator and what do you get if you become one?

It just means that the staff of the house are going to see it as me trying to insult him and start problems for no reason.

Can't you tell the house staff about how the sexist guy is abusive? I thought this kind of behavior was a big deal now.

Oh, I've tried. They basically can't do anything unless they see it happen, and even then it's mostly a slap on the wrist and a "Hey don't do that." The only other thing they can do is hold a mediated discussion between us where nothing will get accomplished and I'll just end up more worked up than I started.

So if you are bad to him, you are labeled as an instigator. If he is bad to you, nothing happens. Where's the logic?

[nenjin]

I think I broke my driver side window, again. Last time the armature inside bent and the window got all jacked up. Probably the same thing this time. This is like the 2nd time in a few years this has happened. *sigh* Going to be a lovely drive at 7am tomorrow in 10 degree whether with the window open. ><

[Frumple]

... clear plastic wrap and duct tape?

[Eric Blank]

Cling wrap is a wonderfully horrible material. Use it.

* Eric Blank is not responsible if anyone is injured whilst trying to use cling wrap for anything at all. That shit is dangerous and you have been warned.

[AlleeCat]

*long*

So if you are bad to him, you are labeled as an instigator. If he is bad to you, nothing happens. Where's the logic?

Different guy. The misogynist asshole and the idiot that drives me insane are two different people. Neither of them have apparently done anything punishable yet. Meanwhile, a pretty great guy got kicked out for having a messy room and getting angry when they took away the internet. This place sucks.

[Vorthon]

I have no idea what the hell is wrong with my mom's boyfriend. One minute he's screaming his head off and the next he's fine, and claims to have no recollection of his yelling.

We should start recording him or something. Literally screaming at my mom about how he shouldn't have to pay her a dime once they split up, and how if anything she should be paying him to be allowed to leave. He then said that he was going to charge her for the work he did on the house. Then he asked her if she wanted a tea, as if they weren't just screaming at each-other.

I just don't understand. I think there may be something mentally wrong with him. Sometimes he tries to argue with the TV.

...Yeah, that really does sound like some kind of disorder. I'd suggest getting him to a specialist of some kind, but that seems like it'd just set him off even worse.

[Knit tie]

*long*

So if you are bad to him, you are labeled as an instigator. If he is bad to you, nothing happens. Where's the logic?

Different guy. The misogynist asshole and the idiot that drives me insane are two different people. Neither of them have apparently done anything punishable yet. Meanwhile, a pretty great guy got kicked out for having a messy room and getting angry when they took away the internet. This place sucks.

C'est la vie...

[nenjin]

Eh, I'll be driving it to the shop to get it fixed. Too short enough of a time to do anything else proactive, too long of a time to avoid bitching about it.

[smjjames]

I have no idea what the hell is wrong with my mom's boyfriend. One minute he's screaming his head off and the next he's fine, and claims to have no recollection of his yelling.

We should start recording him or something. Literally screaming at my mom about how he shouldn't have to pay her a dime once they split up, and how if anything she should be paying him to be allowed to leave. He then said that he was going to charge her for the work he did on the house. Then he asked her if she wanted a tea, as if they weren't just screaming at each-other.

I just don't understand. I think there may be something mentally wrong with him. Sometimes he tries to argue with the TV.

...Yeah, that really does sound like some kind of disorder. I'd suggest getting him to a specialist of some kind, but that seems like it'd just set him off even worse.

Blackflymes mom is breaking up with the guy soon and sending him off, so, I don't think they really have a whole lot of motivation to get him to a specialist if he's going to be out of their lives soon.

[MaximumZero]

There's always baseball bat therapy.

[hops]

I-I still watch the Disney Channel :<

[Eric Blank]

I haven't watched Disney channel since Goof Troop was on the air.

[Tiruin]

I have no idea what the hell is wrong with my mom's boyfriend. One minute he's screaming his head off and the next he's fine, and claims to have no recollection of his yelling.

We should start recording him or something. Literally screaming at my mom about how he shouldn't have to pay her a dime once they split up, and how if anything she should be paying him to be allowed to leave. He then said that he was going to charge her for the work he did on the house. Then he asked her if she wanted a tea, as if they weren't just screaming at each-other.

I just don't understand. I think there may be something mentally wrong with him. Sometimes he tries to argue with the TV.

This...err, does pertain to indications of such, yes .__.
But its a real delicate issue (though apparent it is).
Read up on the matter in your local library or ask from any therapist you're seeing :O

[BlackFlyme]

I'm not seeing any therapists or anything. I haven't even seen my doctor since I last refilled my prescription. Though I don't think the medication is working.

Likely because they gave me the wrong dosage. Again.

[Tiruin]

Likely because they gave me the wrong dosage. Again.

o_O??
Prescriptions giving the...wrong dosage?