Currently, its only serving to makes us both angry at each other. I would be fine if we could argue for our points seperately, but we're supposed to stand up for ALL of them and talk them trough to the other groups. And I just cant argue something from heart if I dont believe in it, or deem it unrealistic. Just plain doesnt work. It would aslo be stupid to agree on 50-50 when some of the stuff contradicts itself.
I mean, people-skills, whoopdie-diddle-doo, I deal with them on a daily basis, no way around it. But this is throwing a cat and a Dog into the same cage and expecting them to form a political party.
Also, it's important to keep in mind that the difference in opinions probably annoys him just as much as it annoys you. Unless he's trying to pick ALL of the group's opinions, in which case you have every right to be irritated.
Im aware that he is annoyed, but the situation just seems unfair. Its basically DEMANDING that one of us throws his principles over board for this one discussion.
I mean, I have no problem playing his best buddy for 30 minutes, pretending that I agree on all the stuff he wants to put out. But that would be 30 minutes of me quoting other politicians, reading from articles and generally being about as boring as you can get.
I talked about this to the prof. and he was dissapointed. Considering that I am very able in terms of speech and discussion, he'd probably grade me pretty well, but he wants it to be honest and would be sad if I just played political-puppet for the duration of the talk.
I think hes a tad too fixated on the whole "respect everyones opinion" thing. He concluded from my style of arguing that im too dismissive and judgmental of others, when they have certain attitudes or beliefs, and hes dead set on fixing it by throwing every-bigger polar opposites at me. But firstly it doesnt work, I cant help myself that someone who says stuff like "Lets get rid of capitalism" gets a smirk from my side. Theres a line of nonsense that I just consider laughable, no matter how courteous I am about it. And secondly, what kind of method is this? Smacking my head against this 40 feet brick-wall until im so frustrated that i'll bite, just to get it over with?
I realise this may seem awfully antagonistic, but I have enough shit on my head as it is. And now im supposed to devote energy, nerves, ESPECIALLY nerves and heart into something that just makes me want to dig out my higher brainfunctions with a spoon.