I watch pretty much any TV show that purports to have autism spectrum characters religiously.
I even watch The Big Bang Theory pretty often, even though I hate it. HATE it.
But seriously, if you're watching shitty TV shows and get angry over something offensive and/or stupid that happens in it, what exactly were you expecting in the first place? Big Bang Theory is simple, dumb comedy. You should be more angry that its jokes highly revolve around how people think "nerds" act, rather than shitty "offensive" jokes.
In orange: the shitty jokes you're offended by.
In green: the shitty jokes I'm offended by.
Thank you for informing me what I should be angry about and offended by.
I'm not sure all the things you listed are queerbaiting; Abed and Troy, at least, are both portrayed (IMO, anyway) as fairly non-sexual entities; Abed has his whole aspergers-to-the-point-of-an-artform thing (which is probably problematic in itself, but for a different reason) and Troy is generally shown to be naive and idealistic, but mostly naive. Moss and Roy, too, I don't recall any particular 'relationship' between them; Moss has basically the same deal as Abed, and Roy is fairly explicitly displayed as heterosexual; 'I'm just going for a lecher on 5th' comes to mind. Granted, though, I haven't watched IT Crowd in a while, so maybe I'm misremembering.
Let's see... a whole bunch of jokes about them being each other's romantic partners/"married", including multiple kisses in The IT Crowd which at first looked like an attempt to get out of a situation, but was then shown to be otherwise motivated.
I would agree with Roy being heterosexual other than the fact that
all of the stereotypical heterosexual relationship jokes happen between Moss and Roy. The other characters talk about it and notice it. Roy checks some women out on-screen, deals with a couple of ex-girlfriends, and has a break-up off-screen. But all of the
relationship flags are between Moss and Roy.
As for Abed and Troy, I've only seen the first season, but again--same thing as above without the onscreen kisses. Annie: "I thought Troy was trying to hold my hand, but he had just mistook me for Abed." Jeff (leaving a message on Abed's answering machine): "Your girlfriend [Troy] will be at the flagpole in 10 minutes." . . . Also, filming sex scenes together for an amateur movie. And it goes on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and I won't mention all of it.