I will never compromise my morals due to what others tell me is true. And, again, another thing, Religion is not all about god. it is about, a system of values, no matter how many Evangelicals spin it into madness, or how many people think that god not existing means all of religion is bunkum.
The problem you're running into, misko, is right here. You are projecting your personal feelings about religion and what it means to you onto religion as a whole. You're taking it to such an extent that you're contradicting yourself in a single sentence. I read the above quote as "Even if this is what religion means to some people, that's still not what it actually means to them."
I don't think anybody is arguing with you about your personal religious beliefs. They're arguing with you because you're acting as if your personal religious beliefs speak for everyone.
Religion means different things to different people.
My personal stance on it for the last 15 years has been to develop the most comprehensive moral system possible and live up to it to the best of my ability. If there is no god, then I'll have no regrets. If there is a god and he judges me according to my life and character, then I'll have earned my place. If there is a god and he judges me according to whether or not I fearfully stroked his megalomaniacal ego, then I'd rather accept whatever consequences are in store for me than reinforce that god's disgusting mentality.
I tell this to religious people, and get widely varying responses. Some people tell me I'll be fine. God cares about my goodness and integrity more than anything. Others tell me that I'll burn in hell for not being in church every Sunday, and no amount of goodness elsewhere will change that. Clearly your perspective on religion is not as universal as it seems you're trying to make it out to be.
And I'm not sure why you'd make such strong assertions, especially ones that involve criticizing other's points of view, if you're not prepared to deal with criticism. "I'm going to say this thing that is going to be taken personally by a lot of other people, but please don't disagree with me" is... just not very mature. I can't think of a nicer way to put it.