Minor game raeg:
Been playing a lot of Warframe with a friend. It's like if Diablo met a 3rd person shooter, with endlessly respawning waves of enemies.
Tried to get my friend on Skype but he was being strange and was like "no it stresses me out too much trying to hear my wife and you at the same time."
Fine. Whatever. I guess we're going to talk at each other in chat with a 50% chance of actually seeing what the other is saying.
So there's this objective in the level we need to reach, then we have to escape. My friend is several levels higher than me so the whole instance level is bumped up. I grab the objective...security locks down...enemies start pouring into the room...I go to the security panel to override the security so we can escape, turn around....
And my friend is halfway across the level, sprinting for the exit. I'm COMPLETELY fucking surrounded by bad guys, enough to kill me three times over. I narrowly escape dying (which, unless I blow one of my limited revives for the day, means I get zero credits for the level if I don't complete it.)
My friend knows this, full and well. When I finally get away and say "Thanks for the backup" he replies "Oh sorry, my wife is hungry. She needs to eat."
Now, I'm not one to come between a dude and his wife. But a) thanks for fucking telling me that before hand you fuckwit, voice chat would have made that EASY to express and b) I'm glad that our friendship basically becomes invalid when your wife is hungry. My friend often uses his wife as an excuse for various reasons, but this is the first time it's truly pissed me off. Never mind the fact either that he's been playing Warframe all fucking day and this is the first game I've played since I've gotten off of work.
The point was made when we're almost out of the level and a truly epic horde of bad guys bum rushes us in a narrow corridor. The same horde of bad guys that I sprinted across the whole level to get away from. My friend is like "That was insane" and I said "Yes, that's what you abandoned me to when you decided to leave me behind."
It's one thing to be selfish. It's another thing to be selfish while using someone else to shield your selfishness.