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[MaximumZero]

that's probably how I'd have taken it, in your position.

That was exactly it.

[Graknorke]

whilst we're on the subject of LGBT, last night, when I'd reached the point of being so tired I was being irrational, I accidentally convinced myself I was gay.

I think I kind of know what you're talking about. DOubting your own sanity? Went a little something like:
"Woah, I almost forgot [embarassing event here] happened. Almost like I managed to make myself forget. Like that could work with anything. Like right now if I'm mentally retarded and in denial. Or maybe I'm secretly gay? How would I know... I could be so far in denial, even I don't know it. And then this self doubt, is that a sign for or against? I guess that I question it kind of invalidates that, but what if I only thought of it in the first place so that I could dismiss it with that logic and be able to better deceive myself. How do I decide!?". And then spend about a week worrying about it before forgetting that it ever happened.

[MaximumZero]

...Did he actually say that?

Yes. With the memetic intonation.

[Scelly9]

...Did he actually say that?

Yes. With the memetic intonation.

That is amazingly awesome.

[armeggedonCounselor]

whilst we're on the subject of LGBT, last night, when I'd reached the point of being so tired I was being irrational, I accidentally convinced myself I was gay.

I think I kind of know what you're talking about. DOubting your own sanity? Went a little something like:
"Woah, I almost forgot [embarassing event here] happened. Almost like I managed to make myself forget. Like that could work with anything. Like right now if I'm mentally retarded and in denial. Or maybe I'm secretly gay? How would I know... I could be so far in denial, even I don't know it. And then this self doubt, is that a sign for or against? I guess that I question it kind of invalidates that, but what if I only thought of it in the first place so that I could dismiss it with that logic and be able to better deceive myself. How do I decide!?". And then spend about a week worrying about it before forgetting that it ever happened.

I've kinda been in a self-doubting stage recently. I suspect it's entirely possible that I am, but have a stronger attraction toward women. Or perhaps I'm less bisexual and more biromantic, because while the thought of sex with another male kinda weirds me out, the thought of cuddling and other romantic type stuff doesn't.

Or maybe my libido has taken over all of my brain meats to scream at me "YOU NEED TO LOSE THAT FUCKING VIRGINITY" so I contemplate any sort of relationship.

or maybe it's because it's been over a year since I had affectionate contact with anyone

[Hanslanda]

whilst we're on the subject of LGBT, last night, when I'd reached the point of being so tired I was being irrational, I accidentally convinced myself I was gay.

I think I kind of know what you're talking about. DOubting your own sanity? Went a little something like:
"Woah, I almost forgot [embarassing event here] happened. Almost like I managed to make myself forget. Like that could work with anything. Like right now if I'm mentally retarded and in denial. Or maybe I'm secretly gay? How would I know... I could be so far in denial, even I don't know it. And then this self doubt, is that a sign for or against? I guess that I question it kind of invalidates that, but what if I only thought of it in the first place so that I could dismiss it with that logic and be able to better deceive myself. How do I decide!?". And then spend about a week worrying about it before forgetting that it ever happened.

I've kinda been in a self-doubting stage recently. I suspect it's entirely possible that I am, but have a stronger attraction toward women. Or perhaps I'm less bisexual and more biromantic, because while the thought of sex with another male kinda weirds me out, the thought of cuddling and other romantic type stuff doesn't.

Or maybe my libido has taken over all of my brain meats to scream at me "YOU NEED TO LOSE THAT FUCKING VIRGINITY" so I contemplate any sort of relationship.

or maybe it's because it's been over a year since I had affectionate contact with anyone

Hi. I'm heterosexual, through and through. I've also had doubts before about my sexuality, but it came down to this for me, "When I'm sexually interested, do I think about boys or girls?" The answer was girls, so I just trusted that. I haven't been in any sort of physical relationship in over two years now, so I can understand how you feel there. It's not fun. I miss cuddles.
I'd go so far as to say I'd cuddle with a guy if he was... Suitably my type, but for a guy, that's an exceptionally narrow, tricky range. And there wouldn't be anything beyond cuddles. As now several have told me, sexuality is a sliding scale. The kinsey scale shows it pretty well actually. Most of all, don't worry about labeling yourself.

[MaximumZero]

I agree with most of that, but the Kinsey scale is incomplete. There needs to be another axis, which measures desire or libido.

[kaijyuu]

My preferred scale measures each individually. So you might be 70% hetero, 50% homo.

[Rose]

My preffered scale measures 0-3 attraction to men and women separately, with 0 being no attraction, 1 being only mild, 2 being normal, and 3 being massive nosebleeds.

So asexual is 0,0

[Wrex]

And under Kinsley, I am X, as in "Does not fit".

[Hanslanda]

I agree with most of that, but the Kinsey scale is incomplete. There needs to be another axis, which measures desire or libido.

I agree with this. But my desire and libido are a bit different it seems. If you go by my libido... Well, let's not talk about that. But my actual desire is quite low.

My preferred scale measures each individually. So you might be 70% hetero, 50% homo.

So I'm 100% hetero and 7% homo?

My preffered scale measures 0-3 attraction to men and women separately, with 0 being no attraction, 1 being only mild, 2 being normal, and 3 being massive nosebleeds.

So asexual is 0,0

So... Many... Ninjas...

I'd probably be a 3,.5 to 1. Then again, you're scale doesn't mesh well with me.

[MaximumZero]

I'm a....3,3,3 on Japa's scale?

[Hanslanda]

I'm a....3,3,3 on Japa's scale?

No, you're just a 3

[Karlito]

Aren't all those 2-axis scales equivalent?

[Rose]

Aren't all those 2-axis scales equivalent?

Mine is neutral of your own gender.