Maybe its how you worded it that made it look bad even if its not bad at all?
Ohh for sure but I cannot word it any better.
My guess is you're troubled because you're ignoring something that isn't wholly...right, and you do know that you could do something about it--you could be labelled, yeah, that's a fear that somehow now exists today but you could also stand on your case and explain it
It is that I am ignoring something that is wrong... and too many a time when I do, do something about it... I just end up feeling bad from the very same people I am supposedly on the same side of. As well I don't help anyone, usually making it pointless for me to have attempted it.
It is too stressful and emotionally draining... but at the same time it feels so wrong not to.
When I chose to do this, I accepted that I would get a label because of this... but at least it a label I chose.
did you make such an inflammatory post on the subject?
Not really... All I said was that I am still doing the stepping out
That it went REALLY well in every sense.
But that I am feeling a moral dilemma because of it, but that every experience so far has supported that this decision is the logical and moral one... but that it is still disturbing me.
everyone who could be angry at me for this, has been in arguments with me on the subject and knows I should be keeping my trap shut about the subject. While the responses up until now has generally been supportive.
If I AM seeking someone to argue with me subconsciously, I am hoping someone can talk me out of it... not to solidify my choice to bow out.