Parents fighting again
Seriously guys, could you please stop fighting about every little thing? Dad, that mom went to the hospital today with her son to accompany her because she felt horrible (turns out she has vertigo) doesn't mean you have no freedom or hope in this relationship. Mom, dad isn't a horrible person because he did [insert small nuisance here].
And don't even talk about separating. Not after all these years of 'Kids, divorce is horrible and evil. Never should it be done, for it is a great evil, unless the marriage vows were a lie.' In fact, that last part about 'marriage vows are a lie' wasn't there for most of my life. It only appeared a couple of years ago. Before that it was 'any separation is bad. No exceptions.'
As a child of a (for me) early divorce, I look at this situation with interest. I was too young to really have an identity separate from my family. So I kinda wonder, what's worse? Being a little kid and having your bedrock erode without warning (well, there's warnings but you're too young to get it), or being older and watching the same thing happen at a slower pace.
Anyways, I don't know if I agree that divorce is always wrong. What I will say though, is it's a pretty fucked up deal for kids. You get handed a set of expectations at birth, a norm, that you grow up with to some age, before everything is flipped upside down and you're pretty much powerless to do anything about it.
Some of my friends who are older now are watching their parents go through divorce....and it's kinda like man, you have no idea how much worse it is when you don't have distance from it, literally or figuratively.