Yeah, Stuebi definitely did have a run-in with a shitty parent who should've done a better job of keeping her child from breaking other people's things. Being frustrated by this is entirely reasonable, and in general it's reasonable to be frustrated by people who feel they're entitled to extra respect and approval by virtue of having made a child (as opposed to successfully raising a child to be a good adult, which is worth commendation). Those people are dicks. Nobody took action to ruin somebody else's day, either, which is good.
I was commenting on the idea that these people deserve whatever comeuppance you can hurl their way. You've got legitimate grievances, don't get me wrong, but it seems to me like you're getting caught up in talking about how much better you are than them, which you may recognize as the thinking they use to dismiss the opinions of the childless. Trust me, the woman you exaggerate as asking about a 3rd trimester abortion exaggerates you as a useless layabout with no sense of responsibility, and you're both wrong. The parent is the one who fucked up, absolutely, but the ranting's gone beyond talking about how frustrating their fuckup is to how shitty a person they are, so that's apparently not relevant anymore.
I don't want anybody to stop posting here, I'm just hoping that we can show some jerks the compassion that they lack, thereby avoiding becoming jerks ourselves. Or at least think about it before concluding that they're such willful jerks that they've given that up. Please, keep posting. Your rants are good reading, and you've made clear that they're cathartic for you! This is a critique, at best, not an attempt at censorship.
EDIT: And I do apologize if it feels like I'm shutting down somebody's rage. That's not what this thread is for. Needing a place to vent is a-ok, and this ought to be a safe space for that. If this post directly conflicts with your ability to get your thoughts down in text, then disregard it. It's less important in this thread.