Alright, haven't read the whole topic but I'm obligated to join in.
Now, I don't think there'd be any sort of 'space nomads' or 'ruthless conquering space aliens' simply because it doesn't sound like a practical thing for any space-faring civilization to actually set their minds to doing.
Now, I'm not a person that thinks that life isn't out there. I think that life has already sprung up a hundred billion times in every corner of the universe, although it might not be 'intelligent' life. Now, assuming that one of those lifeforms civilized millions of years before us, and created space travel to accommodate the expanding populace. Now, even if I assumed that the psychologies of these aliens and us are vastly different, I feel they'd still be forced to comform to predictable practicality, and what I see as practical is that space travel wouldn't be very profitable.
By that, I mean there'd be no reason for a potential alien race to trawl the inconcievably vast expanses of the universe just to 'maybe' find other intelligent life. Instead, if there were squads exploring the universe, they'd do it in the easiest, most unscrupulous way possible: by becoming sentient robots that can remain in space for the hundreds of thousands of years it'd take to explore the vastness of the universe and using self-maintenance devices in-hand with reusable energy collection systems to remain operating indefinitely rather than having to jump through all the hoops necessary to maintain life in outerspace. The robot alien race could relentlessly search the universe for anything of real value, coldly devoting everything to memory for later use. Through these travels, the explorer bots would undoubtably come across millions of planets with life on them, and might even create a simple scale to give a rough approximation of how advanced the life on any given planet they scan is at. These robots looking at Earth might scan it, take notes on it's atmosphere, geological make-up, and it's relative stage of life, file it away with the millions of other planets of similar make-up, and then quickly move to the next solar system.
I'm thinking that if we're to ever meet these aliens, then we'd have to be just as unscrupulous and become robots ourselves, and trawl the universe looking for them...