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[Grakelin]

I had a carryover that failed after six or seven months apart.

I blame myself. If I wasn't such a God in the sack, she never would have had the urge to leave me so she could have sex again.

[x2yzh9]

I'm not. I'm just saying that I agree that it's needed for 90% of relationships. The other 10% being, well, underage relationships. You know, 10-18 year olds dating 10-18 year olds. I'm being realistic here, guys, I'm not fucking anybody no, but I realize that having sex is pretty much most of the time the lifeblood of a relationship.

[Cheddarius]

Wait, X2 is twelve?

[Vector]

Wait, X2 is twelve?

Yes.  He said so in the Operation: Cardio thread a week or two back.

[Cheddarius]

Hrm.

[Pathos]

Sexy time is necessary for 90% of relationships.

That's what I hate about todays society.

You hate that society is made up of humans?

No the whole, "Your relationship is only as good as the sex in it".

It's not really that, it's just that sex is a natural bonding mechanism between two people. If you're good at sex, then you're good at it - you'll probably both get more pleasure out of it. But, that won't really improve your relationship beyond sexual satisfaction, what does improve your relationship is the feeling of infinite closeness that two people feel after sexy time.

Especially women. For women, it's basically, "I want to spend my entire life with this man." and broodiness!

[ToonyMan]

I'd stop for a bit Pandarsenic and try again later.

[Nolor]

Wait, X2 is twelve?

Yes.  He said so in the Operation: Cardio thread a week or two back.

I thought he was trolling (mixing the "i'm twelve and what is this" meme + 'B12'/Bay12 supplements) but upon rooting through his older post history (http://www.bay12forums.com/smf/index.php?action=profile;u=18224;area=showposts;start=945) reveals that it's completely possible he's actually 12 or 13.

On the topic of trust issues: I'm pretty sure I have them, but I think I've gotten used to it. Also, I think they make getting over break-ups much easier. Instead of thinking, "I did <x> wrong," I can just think, "Well, in retrospect, she was probably a cheating whore."

How this will affect my future relationships: only time can tell.

[Pandarsenic]

Most of the relationships I've seen around me have ended the same way. I'm at a point where I'm not exactly aware that there's a way for relationships to go other than that path; I know of them, but they're not exactly real to me. They're mythical ideas I have no experience with and no evidence of.

So... yeah.

So... looking at this, it kind of makes me think that you might need to take a break from relationships for a while, to think about where you'd like things to go and how you can get there.  Make observations of others' relationships, think about how you want to do things, and heal a little.  It sounds like things have been rough for you, and to be honest 4 months isn't that long... so perhaps you should take a bit more time off to cultivate friendships and think about how you want to lead your life.

Well, not to be demoralizing, but most of the time, LDRs are doomed upfront.

Sexy time is necessary for 90% of relationships.

This.

You're 12.  I really hope you're not getting into serious relationships at the age of 12.

Wait...

wait...

*Takes careful look at timeline*

OH GOD DAMN IT

The years are off by one.

It should be:

November 2006: Got with first girlfriend
December 2007: First dumpage, got with second girlfriend (terrible idea, I know. Shush. I've come to terms with that).
December 2008: Second dumpage
March 25, 2010: Now with third girlfriend.

So yeah, I took A YEAR and four months off.

(The worst part is I've done this EVERY SINGLE TIME I've talked about this, ever.)

[Vector]

Well, then, perhaps you need more time off than a year and four months >_>

You never know.

[Grakelin]

What you need to do is brood for a period of twenty years between relationships.

It works for Batman.

[eerr]

What you need to do is brood for a period of twenty years between relationships.

It works for Batman.

theres an article on cracked.com...

[Pandarsenic]

Update

Having trust issues justified sucks

[Cheddarius]

Try a larger sample size?

[Pandarsenic]

3 for 3 so far.