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[Blacken]

Dump her. Forget about her. Move on. Seriously.

She will only keep on twisting the knife. Those people get off on hurting others. She knows what she's doing, and she enjoys it.

Alternate Character Interpretation: She doesn't know he likes her, or she knows and isn't interested.

But I guess that'd be too easy.

[Maggarg - Eater of chicke]

Start listening to freeform jazz and enjoying modern art whilst living in a flat writing pretentious poetry.

[Dwarf]

Probably, there is a relation to the discovery that the Current One-Sided Love Of My Life is a bitch who gave a friend of mine a hand-job, altough I keep telling to myself that I don't care.

Dump her. Forget about her. Move on. Seriously.

She will only keep on twisting the knife. Those people get off on hurting others. She knows what she's doing, and she enjoys it.

Oh, of course I do.
I tell myself that I don't care at all, and it starts working.

[Hyndis]

Dump her. Forget about her. Move on. Seriously.

She will only keep on twisting the knife. Those people get off on hurting others. She knows what she's doing, and she enjoys it.

Alternate Character Interpretation: She doesn't know he likes her, or she knows and isn't interested.

But I guess that'd be too easy.

From the description that person sounds a lot like an ex of mine actually. Same sort of behavior. Same sort of person.

She was a manipulative, selfish bitch. Awesomely hot, but she was completely and utterly toxic, ruined everyone she was around.

Dumped her and moved on.

[Dwarven WMD]

It's been three days, today being the third. Yesterday I hardly recognized my dad, as it he seemed strange to me. This morning, I went for a walk for a while, and started crying. I feel slightly better today, but still pretty bad. I don't feel like I'll be suitable mentally to go to school tomorrow, so I convinced my Dad to keep me out tomorrow, which gave me a bit of relief.

Any more advice?

[Greatoliver]

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Please remedy my confusion
And thrust me back to the day
The silence of your seclusion
Brings night into all you say
Pull me down again
And guide me into pain
I'm counting nocturnal hours
Drowned visions in haunted sleep
Faint flickering of your powers
Leaks out to show what you keep
Pull me down again
And guide me into
There is failure inside
This test I can't persist
Kept back by the enigma
No criterias demanded here
Deadly patterns made my wreath
Prosperous in your ways
Pale ghost in the corner
Pouring a caress on your shoulder
Puzzled by shrewd innocence
Runs a thick tide beneath
Ushered into inner graves
Nails bleeding from the struggle
It is the end for the weak at heart
Always the same
A lullaby for the ones who've lost all
Reeling inside
My gleaming eye in your necklace reflects
Stare of primal regrets
You turn your back and you walk away
Never again
Spiralling to the ground below
Like Autumn leaves left in the wake to fade
away
Waking up to your sound again
And lapse into the ways of misery

For those with spotify: http://open.spotify.com/track/1kLXoAje5Z4mlZOAFgZZj3
For those without: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvLn8j4c5l4

I would say, strive to be pure... Put all your negative emotions into a furnace and use it to drive you towards this goal.  Get rid of people who are damaging, use it to reinforce your relationships with those who are the opposite.  Use it to get things you place value on.

[cowofdoom78963]

Dont be afraid of the truth Dwarf WMD. You do not need help or a cure. You need to keep it up so that you become stronger.

No pain no gain!

[Dwarven WMD]

So basically accept the thoughts and let them pass over?

[Rafal99]

No pain no gain!

Well this was discussed a lot before in another thread, and it was generally accepted that it doesn't work than way...

[Nivim]

So basically accept the thoughts and let them pass over?

Be confident you will figure it out in whatever way is best for you; and it'll happen.

[cowofdoom78963]

So basically accept the thoughts and let them pass over?

No you have to push it to the limit. You go a step beyond that. You have to embrace them and then use them to become stronger!

[Hyndis]

It's been three days, today being the third. Yesterday I hardly recognized my dad, as it he seemed strange to me. This morning, I went for a walk for a while, and started crying. I feel slightly better today, but still pretty bad. I don't feel like I'll be suitable mentally to go to school tomorrow, so I convinced my Dad to keep me out tomorrow, which gave me a bit of relief.

Any more advice?

At this point I strongly recommend seeing someone about this.

When you become dissociative that is a severe problem right then and there.

The cause of it, I'm not sure, could be an existential crisis. The cause of it is something you will need to work through, but counselors are there to treat the symptoms of it until you can get things under control.

Seriously, please see someone.

I went through almost the exact same thing when I was younger. I let it go too far before finally seeking help, and it was almost the end of me. The longer you let it consume you the harder it will be to claw your way out of that hole.

[Hyndis]

No pain no gain!

Well this was discussed a lot before in another thread, and it was generally accepted that it doesn't work than way...

Some things will be painful yes, no real way around it. New routine at a gym while trying to get in shape will be painful, but you'll get better after it. Finally dealing with emotional loss from a major event like a death of a relative is also painful, but something that needs to be dealt with.

Not everything needs to be painful.

And there is a point where the pain itself becomes the source of the problem, and it can become utterly crippling.

Pain is how our bodies tell us where are limits are.

Some of these limits can be crossed. For others, the pain is there for a very important reason, and those limits are not meant to be crossed.

[cowofdoom78963]

And there is a point where the pain itself becomes the source of the problem, and it can become utterly crippling.

Of course you should take a rest if your going to die but finding a cure is quitting.

Pain is how our bodies tell us where are limits are.

Some of these limits can be crossed. For others, the pain is there for a very important reason, and those limits are not meant to be crossed.

Pain is how your body cries for help. You should know if the body is in pain but you should not be ruled by it. Your body tells you what it wants now, but your body cant plan ahead.

To the body nothing should be done that causes it pain. That's why we have minds.

[Cheeetar]

And there is a point where the pain itself becomes the source of the problem, and it can become utterly crippling.

Of course you should take a rest if your going to die but finding a cure is quitting.

Wait what? So, your solution to pain is to... not do anything about it? How do you define finding a cure?