I'd like to comment on Org but given that he's in game, I won't. If I can remember it, I can bring it up later.
As for assholes in general, it doesn't mean a clean break, but..welll.. I can put the oddness like this:
Mafia want to hide from suspicion. As such, they tend to prefer acts that give as little suspicion to them as possible. Even trying to get someone lynched is really only used to make sure THEY don't get lynched. As such most prefer NOT to be noticed and hated by everyone in the world.
Acting like an asshole, though, means you are doing the opposite. As such, after the "OMG I HATE YOU PLEASE DIE!!" passes away (and it doesn't always: I've seen a few lynches due to that) the town thinks "Well, mafia wouldn't do something that stupid" and walk away.
Please don't run this into WIFOM land from here. I'm talking generalities. I KNOW from here it gets more complex, but such complexities happen much less than you think. Mafia CAN be aggressive assholes but, more times than not, they AREN'T.
As town, though, remember your goal is NOT to survive. Yes, being an asshole means you can live easier, but what's the point? All that means is the mafia just lets you live until they win. Survival means nothing if that happens (especially since, storywise, the mafia kills you in the end anyway
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So be soft, be assholy, be whatever, but remember your goal: to find scum. If you find them best by pulling back and being mild mannered then do it, even if we cry out "PASSIVE SCUM!" If you find the scum best by being an asshole then act like an ass. I've seen it, it can work..crap I've become less 'pure logic' and more 'in your face' as I've gone on and I've done much better in catching scum for it.
But remember, scum are 'faring well' when they outlive you. Town only farewell when the scum die. If what you are doing keeps you alive but does little else, then you're either a scum that's winning or a town that's losing.