They are a target, but i like fighting only one or 2 at once, not all the medieval superpowers together. It gets stressing after a bit.
I can understand people stronger than me seeing my land as a palce for conquest, the problem here is that EVERYBODY does it, even when i am stronger and by much.
I think you got it wrong: I don't keep a small army. I keep enough to defend my kingdom and attack other should it be needed. I just keep it low enough so I don't go bankrupt in few turns. This may be total war, but i like having infrastructure behind the armies, like for example castles. I try to avoid pillaging since these are the cities i have to rule.
I have nothing against Ai jumping at me in a moment of weakness: what i complain about is the whole world going at war against me for no reason at all by turn 30, refusing peace even if they are losing their last region and I am offering them wagons of gold ( ok, i don't actually do that. But they would still refuse).
In other total war games, i never had this kind of problem. There was war, but not "all vs me" war.
Also, I can't focus on a side. IF i manage to make peace, accepting outrageous conditions ( because i am still stronger than everybody), that nation will only wait more or less 5 turns before going to war again.
It just makes half the game seem worthless. Trade, diplomacy, religion... all useless.
If you was , lets say, switzerland, with 2 units of pikeman, would you atatck me, the richest and most powerful lord of europe, with thousands of soldiers in yuor area? AI does it. The problem is not defeating enemies, because i am much stornger. The problem is having to split armies.
and milan, how much i hate these traitors filled of pride. They are the worst of them all.
I think I will just look for the expansion and download that middle earth mode. At least there will be a reason if people fight against me.
EDIT: well said, post above me. It may be fun once, but seeing it everytime gets a bit boring. The first time, it was great, surviving and eventually winning against all europe together. The second time, it wasn't as great.
Also, i bought Alpha centauri from Ebay. I hope it arrives soon.