I don't think we need to worry about people being called "prudes" or "sex addicts" for how they set their own personal options.
I mean, there is some derision that goes on between people who mod the game in any size, shape, or form, already, but really, it's not anyone's business if someone enjoys vanilla or a mod. The same goes for anyone using ASCII vs. anything else, including Stonesense.
We're already talking about a subset of a subset of a pretty small clique community, here. How much intolerance do you think people can hold for someone who just doesn't want their own personal dwarves to go naked/clothed?
There are, of course, mods that put in the genitalia that the game currently lacks. There was even that succubus/incubus mod that involved a race that attacked through lactation and sexual fluids, which really goes up to the absolute limits.
Call me a prude if you must, but I'd still rather a "prude" option, even if I have to go adding it myself.
For perspective, though, for as far as anyone cares, I should say that I've never used or been particularly interested in using Stonesense before this. In fact, I usually just stick with the default ASCII and hardly mod my game all that much, in spite of generally supporting modding.
I only started adding graphics on a whim, and happened to be decent at it, and because of that got sucked up over here.
I only now show interest in Stonesense because I think these new things that are being added, which actually go beyond what anything else in the game has been able to do, and show a granularity of detail that the game has never shown before, is a truly exciting thing, because it actually opens up some of these details that have thus far been nothing but a useless bit of junk data squirreled away in some remote sub-sub-sub-menu of no relevance.
With that said, much like how kitten de-skulling would be rather gruesome if you had to watch it in person (provided you were a cat-lover), I'm not particularly keen on seeing nudist colony dwarves. It's something of a turn-off to me that makes me pull back from the rest of the overwhelming positive I'm seeing out of taking the leap into trying this new thing I haven't tried before in using Stonesense.
Maybe I'm weird. Actually, I know I'm weird... but anyway, there will be other people who react to this the same way I do, even if there are not all that many, and it's limiting.