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[TD1]

Out of curiosity, can being a trans on hormones effect grades in a bad way? [...]

No. Not at all.
By itself, no. By due process: No. Even as general as stated above--nope. It's not something that affects the mind predominantly that it affects one's grades or is correlated with one's change of grades.

I can accept if someone said "it depends on whether you can control your emotions during the hormone induced madness" but I find it very unlikely that it's "not at all." Are you sure?

[Shadowlord]

I know someone who transitioned in college. I got the impression that the lifting of her dysphoria-depression could only be helpful.

[Iceblaster]

Spoiler: Meh. I dunno. (click to show/hide)

Is it normal to not feel grown up. I mean, fuck. I'm a seventeen year old with no job(at least until January hopefully) and can't even drive on an open road out of fear of something happening and causing someone trouble. It's just fuck. I dunno. Is it normal? I have no other real life people to relate to. if I asked my parents, I'd probably get a 'no, you just need to man up' or some shit because my parents seemed to have everything figured out when they were my age when everything they bring up seems to tell me that maybe i'm the fuck up. Fuck. I dunno. I've been trying to cut down on my swearing, but it's just really hard to keep myself from wanting to do so. It's frustrating and I can't really bring myself to talk to them about it. I've never been able to really talk to them because I'm nervous about their response. I've always been nervous about their response because it's really fucking unpredictable how they're going to respond to me.

Meh. I dunno, I guess i'll just try my best to not feel like shit a week after christmas.

[TD1]

Ice: Yes, very normal. You never grow up, as they say.

Doze: Why assume I used the wrong pronoun? I mean, you're correct that I did, but that seems like a big assumption. Check your privilege level, mate.  (( ))

[TheBiggerFish]

@Ice:I am older than you and still don't feel grown up.

@Tir:Read the spoiler in Doz's post before mine :x

[Tiruin]

@Tir:Read the spoiler in Doz's post before mine :x

I did. Just really curious why you said that to me. Though sorry if it made anything... "._."

Out of curiosity, can being a trans on hormones effect grades in a bad way? [...]

No. Not at all.
By itself, no. By due process: No. Even as general as stated above--nope. It's not something that affects the mind predominantly that it affects one's grades or is correlated with one's change of grades.

I can accept if someone said "it depends on whether you can control your emotions during the hormone induced madness" but I find it very unlikely that it's "not at all." Are you sure?

That's exactly what I meant by 'not at all' by what I said after the first paragraph. o_O
While hormones may affect how you may...feel, it's not extreme enough to really, by itself affect one's performance, like in academic situations.

[TheBiggerFish]

@Tir:No, I was just trying to alert you to some context.

[MaximumZero]

@Iceblaster: I'm a 33 year old, and I have only felt "grown up" a few times in my life. The real secret to being a grown up is knowing that everyone is faking it because no one has a clue about what they're doing.

[Truean]

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[Kot]

I'm spending new years also alone. This time I could proably go and find myself a party but I'm already in forever alone mood so meh.

[Shook]

@Ice:I am older than you and still don't feel grown up.

Can confirm this notion, i hit my 24th year of not feeling like an adult half a year ago, and i'm neither employed or very comfortable with driving despite having had a license for over two years. I'm pretty new to this adulthood bsnss, but it seems to me like it's all about being able to pretend that you're adult rather than having the metaphorical child ripped out of your soul. Either that, or i'm a hopeless manchild. :v

[Yoink]

I'm spending new years also alone. This time I could proably go and find myself a party but I'm already in forever alone mood so meh.

I would not be Yoink if I did not offer encouragement.
Go! Go to a party! As frightening as it may seem you will not regret it once you're there. There are good times to be had! Wallowing may be tempting but partying is far superior and will leave you with fond memories of, y'know, something other than sitting around being sad. Go do it!

[hector13]

Will add to the pile of "me too" re: growing up.

Unemployed 30 year old who learned to drive about 4 months ago.

[Rolan7]

I'm 30 too and so drunk and I don't know what I'm doing, my job ended and... and I don't know where to go next...

[TD1]

That sounds.... unhealthy?