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Author Topic: Things that made you sad today thread.  (Read 9459473 times)

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106935 on: August 20, 2016, 03:31:44 pm »

So shit that we'd rather suggest a teenager not seek it to help with their issues of harming themselves when they feel they have nobody to talk to.
Get someone else, duh.
Fuck, bunch of randoms on Internets is way better than a psychologist, especially the ones that are freely and widely available (school ones, etc.) and spending a fortune on a guy who will treat you like you're mentally retarded seems quite counterproductive.
dunno man psychiatry has helped me so much that I'd recommend it to anybody who thinks it could help them
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106936 on: August 20, 2016, 03:40:13 pm »

Gamedragon: Like Yoink said and I told you, there is a group called beyondblue that you could talk to. They have email too.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106937 on: August 20, 2016, 04:04:23 pm »

Okay, look.

Professional psychological help is really dependent upon the people involved.  So yeah, sometimes, it might not help you with one particular psychologist, but if that's happening, they're obligated to refer you to someone else if you ask.  That is like, literally the first thing in the ethical code IIRC, although I haven't read it recently enough to be sure.


I think you have somewhat strange ideas about what health professionals in general must and must not do....
Psychiatric professionals?  Tiruin linked their ethical code, which I read.
Haven't seen that. I have, however, checked the local deontological codes for both medical professionals and psychologists. Patients have a specific right to look for second opinions and/or ask for their case info and documents. Nowhere does it state that if the patient wants to switch doctors and/or psychologists the previous person in charge of their treatment must be the one to look for an alternative.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106938 on: August 20, 2016, 05:24:11 pm »

Not having any friends sucks. I just want people to talk to, and keep talking to. I do end up talking to people, but since I have very few interests and no hobbies there's nothing to talk about except my own fucking issues. And that's even if somebody bothers to talk to me. Vast majority of the time I'm just another random internet denizen.

I guess I just have to accept that the only interesting things about me are every fucking thing that's gone wrong in my life. So the only thing people feel about me is just... pity.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106939 on: August 20, 2016, 05:27:34 pm »

Sorry, guys, I kindo f had a mental breakdown. I know that doesn't excuse what I said, but I'm so sorry. :c
Aw shoot, it's okay, sorry i got a bit pissy. That particular kind of behaviour just peeves me really badly, and i'm pretty shit at controlling my temper. :<

also of course i get a severe belly ache the night before going to folk high school

NOT LIKE I NEED FOOD OR SLEEP OR ANYTHING

But holy shit this is actually very painful, feels like a combination of pressure and vague burning in my colon. I don't feel sick in any other way (i mean, besides what significant pain and worry can do to you), so it's probably mostly just trapped gas, but this is an unusually painful bout of that. Either that, or my colon is inflamed, but i reckon that'd give me more than just pain. UGH. This better not fuck with my sleep or attendance tomorrow.
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« Reply #106940 on: August 20, 2016, 07:13:44 pm »

Oh dang, get well soon, Shook.
I know how awful it is being unable to sleep for whatever reason the night before something important. :-\
If all else fails you can always chug some energy drink in the morning, right?
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106941 on: August 20, 2016, 07:39:41 pm »

Aaargh can't get this email server to cooperate

Also apparently I misremembered earlier, because I can't find where I read what I remember reading.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106942 on: August 20, 2016, 11:44:15 pm »

Gamedragon, I'm a bit late but I sent you a PM that has some hopefully useful advice.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106943 on: August 20, 2016, 11:52:15 pm »

Okay, look.

Professional psychological help is really dependent upon the people involved.  So yeah, sometimes, it might not help you with one particular psychologist, but if that's happening, they're obligated to refer you to someone else if you ask.  That is like, literally the first thing in the ethical code IIRC, although I haven't read it recently enough to be sure.

I think you have somewhat strange ideas about what health professionals in general must and must not do....
Psychiatric professionals?  Tiruin linked their ethical code, which I read.
Haven't seen that. I have, however, checked the local deontological codes for both medical professionals and psychologists. Patients have a specific right to look for second opinions and/or ask for their case info and documents. Nowhere does it state that if the patient wants to switch doctors and/or psychologists the previous person in charge of their treatment must be the one to look for an alternative.
Both are true. What TBF is saying is that if the professional by themself sees that the concerns the person is bringing up is not within their specialty (or that in continuation of their specific work with them may bring more harm than otherwise), they shall refer them to those who are more capable.
Also, CP is a doctor, TBF. :P

Sorry, guys, I kindo f had a mental breakdown. I know that doesn't excuse what I said, but I'm so sorry. :c
Thanks for saying sorry. :)
My impression about Gamedragon and the context is that what he's saying is trusted to be valid--that's a basic point within going with others, treating whatever they say as substantial. But any amount of cynicism will not help further--when a person uses an outlet to express or vent (ie the sad thread), sometimes they may not have outlets currently present to them IRL; sometimes they aren't seeking for help from others online and just want to be listened (and this does happen.)
But GD does need help. Other people PMing him is not the endpoint, but is something such as psychological first aid--they can help alleviate the stress and help move with understanding, possibly working around concerns he's been having on his mind for days and weeks with nobody to thoroughly talk them over with. (eg Making a diary or writing down your ideas so there's something tangible to go back to or present to others if you can't vocalize it) It's like talking to friends or other people who want to help (albeit without the non-verbal communication part that's mainly into text)--they may not give exacts or ends to meet and fully aid a concern that's been present for weeks or months or further, but these can help in the current time, as a possible outlet, or as someone to communicate with.

Related sads on my part would be people applying labels to the psychological or medical field due to individual happenings, which once or twice or several times over may have given a negative impact for them to condemn the whole bloody field.
Although I can't usually get sarcasm and combine it with cynicism and that's be believing every word you said in a O_o!? way.
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« Reply #106944 on: August 21, 2016, 12:28:00 am »

Internet searches are returning less information than they used to, and they are deliberately manipulated.  :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(





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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106945 on: August 21, 2016, 01:29:55 am »

That...Seems bad.
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« Reply #106946 on: August 21, 2016, 03:36:22 am »

Oh dang, get well soon, Shook.
I know how awful it is being unable to sleep for whatever reason the night before something important. :-\
If all else fails you can always chug some energy drink in the morning, right?
Could in theory, but i don't think it'd be wise with my bowels. :v
Anyways, thanks, whatever you did to appease the bowel gods seems to have worked, because it went away in time for me to sleep just a little bit later than usual. The fact that i could fall asleep at all is miraculous, considering that today is the day where my life gets temporarily uprooted. :P (although honestly i'm not sad about that part, just HIGHLY AGITATED)
I suspect that the pains yesterday may have been a combination of IBS, trapped gas, too much pressing and nervosity, which may have triggered some kind of cramping in my colon or something. IBS is also known as spastic colon (if you google image for "spastic colon" you'll quickly see what i'm on about, and yes it's mostly SFW), which might lend some merit to this hypothesis.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #106947 on: August 21, 2016, 08:00:26 am »

Oh, fuck. :)
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« Reply #106948 on: August 21, 2016, 10:17:33 am »

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« Reply #106949 on: August 21, 2016, 10:27:31 am »

Rolan:Stay strong.  You can do it.

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And, y'know, stay safe, okay?
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