Why am I aspiring to go to Oxford again? It's kind of strange that everyone I know expects me to be able to get in. I'm not a genius at all.
Ah, the 'ol family expectations trope. I wish there was always a reassurance that 'oh, don't worry about where/if you get in, you'll do fine'. But, at leaset in my case, the majority of my family despises my decision to not pursue elite higher ed. They see 'potential' in me, but don't see that I'm fucking done with formalized education, and don't I have a chance in hell of getting in, due to my precision-executed straight-Cs through high school.
Bio guy is being flakey, claiming that he's sick. Yeah, because he totally wasn't conveniently sick the last time as well. He's the one who started hitting on me first so I have no idea what fucking game he's playing at, but I don't want to be a part of it.
I'm honestly disgusted with myself for even thinking he was genuine about finding me attracive. He probably did this on a dare but then chickened out.
Okay. Now, I know very little backstory, but I do love playing devil's advocate (and harvesting the subsequent downvotes on reddit). Being sick isn't just for trolls and jerks. Some people are legitimately nervous to go out on dates, and he might be just personally chickening out. Just scroll down to 'life advice' and look at how some people handle it. And really, don't be disgusted. Even if, worst case, you're being trolled, it's just that. You don't let internet trolls get you this tempered... right?