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[itisnotlogical]

I woke up this morning and realized I was having sexual fantasies about the guy I had a crush on, and now it's half a day over and I still feel gross and worthless.

They're normal, it happens. Those who deny it are liars and denying it yourself will only hurt you more in the long run.

You can't pretend that sex and sexual attraction don't exist. Just because you fantasize about somebody doesn't mean that you are a pervert; it means you're with the majority of people that feel sexual attraction to others. If you end up in a relationship, you might not want to share it right away; but if he asks, don't hide it. A girl I once dated asked if I fantasized about her; I honestly replied "yes", and then went on to have the most open, loving relationship I've experienced to this day.

Nobody on this Earth is a being of pure goodness and moral high character. We all have weaknesses; accepting them is a key component of being a healthy individual.

There's some stuff I can share that I'd rather not in the thread, but you can always feel free to message me. I've had a host of awkward experiences myself.

[Orange Wizard]

I woke up this morning and realized I was having sexual fantasies about the guy I had a crush on, and now it's half a day over and I still feel gross and worthless.

Are you sure there are people who don't do that?

[hops]

I woke up this morning and realized I was having sexual fantasies about the guy I had a crush on, and now it's half a day over and I still feel gross and worthless.

Are you sure there are people who don't do that?

I woke up this morning and realized I was having sexual fantasies about the guy I had a crush on, and now it's half a day over and I still feel gross and worthless.

They're normal, it happens. Those who deny it are liars and denying it yourself will only hurt you more in the long run.

You can't pretend that sex and sexual attraction don't exist. Just because you fantasize about somebody doesn't mean that you are a pervert; it means you're with the majority of people that feel sexual attraction to others. If you end up in a relationship, you might not want to share it right away; but if he asks, don't hide it. A girl I once dated asked if I fantasized about her; I honestly replied "yes", and then went on to have the most open, loving relationship I've experienced to this day.

Nobody on this Earth is a being of pure goodness and moral high character. We all have weaknesses; accepting them is a key component of being a healthy individual.

There's some stuff I can share that I'd rather not in the thread, but you can always feel free to message me. I've had a host of awkward experiences myself.

I understand it's an ordinary thing, but it's just that currently I really just wish I hate the guy. He's not a good person.

[itisnotlogical]

Ohh... that does make things a bit more complicated. My offer still stands though.

[NullForceOmega]

Just to be clear, being sexually attracted to someone has less than nothing to do with psychological compatibility or even likability.  Only your built-in reproductive urges.

[Spehss _]

I understand it's an ordinary thing, but it's just that currently I really just wish I hate the guy. He's not a good person.

You appear to be in the Tsundere phase of crushing. Don't go Yandere.

[AlleeCat]

One of the only sex dreams I've had was about my best friend... >_>
Shit happens, yo.

[WillowLuman]

What's the phase where you feel like the only thing they could do to make you unhappy is anything that makes them unhappy?

[hops]

I understand it's an ordinary thing, but it's just that currently I really just wish I hate the guy. He's not a good person.

You appear to be in the Tsundere phase of crushing. Don't go Yandere.

He'd be greatly improved if he is sawed in half though.

[Orange Wizard]

You could become a magician and stage an Unfortunate Accident.

[Tiruin]

Woo, net errors all the way x_x
So little time to send and post stuff...

*MC wishes he could help people...*

This is what I feel too ._.

Sad: Turns out my parents were serious on the "all work and no play" thing. I have very limited time to post or read here, and now I've fallen behind on various threads. It's a pretty small and stupid sad, but still.

Another sad would be... Recent events. Maybe I'll find the time to post about them tomorrow.

Still need referential notes? :O

[Jopax]

Welp, it's over I guess. Tho I'm not sure why is it a sad, maybe because I finally realised it's over? A month after the fact. It's for the best probably.

Mostly because it turned out to be a rather big heap of lies after a short while, I felt that something was wrong even though she kept saying everything was fine. As it turns out, the thing that was wrong was that after the initial rush she didn't feel anything at all for me. And instead of doing the humane thing and killing the thing then and there, she let me simmer for over a month, agonizing over what I was doing wrong.

So what did I get out of this? Well, another lesson on why opening up is a bad idea, another lesson on why trusting people is a bad idea and another reminder why it's better for me to be alone, however shitty it might make me feel, it's better than false hope.

[Tack]

Sometimes it seems that to move blocks is fine, that the lines will be formed as they fall.
Then you see that you have misjudged it... you should not have nudged it after all.


In seriousness Jopax, my sympathy. It's hard to stop these kinds of things from crumbling, but hypocritically speaking, you can't give up on that stuff. It's what makes life worth living really.

[TempAcc]

One of the only sex dreams I've had was about my best friend... >_>
Shit happens, yo.

Its ok, weeks ago I dreamt I killed half of my family by serving them lutefisk, then had sex with the waiters.
I cant cook. We dont even live in a place in which lutefisk is served even in exotic restaurants. Who would even sex a waiter.

Brain pls.

[Caz]

Its ok, weeks ago I dreamt I killed half of my family by serving them lutefisk, then had sex with the waiters.
I cant cook. We dont even live in a place in which lutefisk is served even in exotic restaurants. Who would even sex a waiter.

Brain pls.

Oh man. Too funny.