Nimoy was my childhood hero.
Sads I was going to post before: One of the things the marriage councillor suggested for us to do was to set a couple days during the week that I don't work as "together time" days, or "alone time days", because I need time to myself, and the together days are to balance it out.
Well, we planned days for it (every Thursday would alternate between together or alone, and we try to avoid scheduling doctor visits on those days. I get Thursdays off work already)
Anyway, one of the things we agreed on before we even started this was that if, for whatever reason, we couldn't have one of those days work out, we
would not try to make that day up, we would just stick to the schedule, because trying to change it to make days up would just start arguments.
That worked fine. There was a time when I wasn't able to get a proper alone day due to a doctor's visit we couldn't reschedule, and then having to deal with bills that we couldn't delay on.
I was fine with that, because we already agreed on the system.
Well, yesterday was our "together" day, and despite not having to do any work, despite us even going to a restraunt together, she decided it wasn't "togetherly enough", because she decided to sleep away part of the day on her own choice.
Now she's deciding to confiscate my alone time, and conviniently can't recall the agreement we had to not screw with the schedule.