Also, I'm suddenly the most hated person among everyone who knows my girlfriend because her "sister" has been spreading rumors about how she is in an abusive relationship with me and I'm controlling her through guilt.
I would recommend you to debunk those rumours ASAP, make a stand for yourself and explain how terrible of a situation you are in life right now. Talk with your girlfriend and ask her to support you in your stand. If you don't swear a lot, a couple Precision F-Strikes should give some extra weight to your words. If this goes wrong and they say something terrible such as "You wanna kill yourself? Do it, makes us all happy," you should get the police involved.
Seriously, nobody has permission to spread false rumours about you, or anybody. And if you don't act upon it, nobody will.
THIS. SO MUCH. KAL.
Knowing that she's from a Filipino family raises a ton of ideas regarding their beliefs here ._.
Edit:
PPE:
Dear goodness. Being blackmailed and framed is very...ugh.
I mean, I guess your friend's best friend is also in the same religion, aye? It even says directly
to not provide false witness against others.>_>
Defend thyself in front of them. You're standing up for a
good cause, but there's a lot of mud slung onto there.
The first thing is noting the biggest priority (ie Why are they all acting like that when its not even true?! There must be something reasonable..or believable that makes such be taken in as accepted idea.)
Your girlfriend is a great person with a nice attitude, Kal.
My girlfriend has already tried to debunk them, but it didn't work. If they don't believe her, why would they believe me? Also, I've never said a swear in my life...
This exists--people who don't swear. I wonder if that's even a thing leveled against you ._. 'He swears'.
Edit: Thinking it over, it seems that others have a stereotype of you by maybe your attitude and recent events? Misconstruing depression and other notes (ie He's not at school~ this may mean {assumption x}) into a very unfavorable notion of you?
Get into details over it, please. Talk about it with others. Don't let assumptions get in
your way despite any/all issues on your part (ie Trust issues and the like)