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[LordSlowpoke]

i don't even use sjw but somebody coming up here and saying something that isn't a slur is a terrible slur to be directly equated with shit the kkk spouted will cause nothing but make me want to use sjw more often

it cannot be helped

And then you step back from your monitor and remember that nobody said that. Chill out, re-read, have a think.

you tryin' to gaslight me on the internet m8

have you no shame

[Dutchling]

Listen guys can we not the skeleton?


Is it really so hard to stop typing 3 goddamn letters that bothers someone on this forum

that you have to fucking argue about it?

thank mr. skeltal

[Xantalos]

I could post about my uncertain emotional state at present to divert the topic.

What's got our resident horror down?

Rather mundane shit, to be honest. I've been infatuated with a certain girl for about 2-3 years now. There's a whole bunch of stuff in between when I first met her and now, but short version we never really went beyond friends because due to my then-present home situation I was a shy sunovabitch with no real self esteem and I didn't know how to talk to people about romantic stuff, still don't. Haven't talked with her since after I finished high school, but the attraction never really faded, even if I periodically forgot about it for a week or two before I'd see her somewhere or a picture of her on Facebook or whatever and it'd resurface. Funnily enough it helped me talk to other girls since I felt no attraction toward them. It's been in that same situation for several months now, hence my repeated posts being pissed about dopamine. Today I found out I wasn't scheduled for work like I thought I was, so I was gonna go home, but instead of doing that, and knowing that there was no point to doing this, instead of getting on the bus and going home I went and walked by her house for no real reason, since she lives close by my work - I believe, anyway. She may have moved out in the meantime. I then walked back to the bus and went home, having made a ~2 km round trip for no real reason at all. So this is gonna probably just persist until I do something about it, as the problem exists entirely inside my own mind. But I haven't the slightest idea or pretext on which to contact her, so I can't really do anything but stew in this goddamn attraction that won't go away.
Fuckin brains.
Shit, this ended up a huge blurb again. Dang.

[Tack]

Add her on facebook.

[Xantalos]

Oh, that got done during the first few talks online I had with her. Used to talk with her for hours, at least online. I wasn't quite as confident or articulate RL.

[Arx]

I can think of a pretty good pretext.

"I've been crushing on you pretty hard for the last couple of years."

Something to do with dates thereafter.

[Xantalos]

True. It'd probably work too, if I went about it right. I just need to get over my fear of approaching people.
Heh, like that's gonna happen.

[Tiruin]

True. It'd probably work too, if I went about it right. I just need to get over my fear of approaching people.
Heh, like that's gonna happen.

Yes it is.
Fears can be overcome. They are not permanent.

[Xantalos]

True. I've actually made a lot of progress in going outside and talking with people and stuff, but based on the rate at which my inhibitions about going up to people and starting conversations have been fading it'll still be several years before they're completely gone and this obsession isn't going away in the meantime.
If only I actually regularly contacted anyone in her social circle I could maybe subtly get details about what she does so I could 'accidentally' run into her at some point but I don't, since being reclusive has downsides.

My apologies for clogging the thread up with this, but it's by far the most prevalent and persistent thought-loop that endlessly circles around in my mind, allowing me little peace.

[Arx]

You're not clogging the thread. This is what the thread is for!

[LordSlowpoke]

You're not clogging the thread. This is what the thread is for!

this

be happy that someone gives a fuck m8

[Xantalos]

It's somewhat of a habit to apologize for nearly everything I do. Should probably work on that.

You're not clogging the thread. This is what the thread is for!

this

be happy that someone gives a fuck m8

Oh, I do. I regularly rant inside my own head, but it's better when it isn't an echo chamber.

[Tiruin]

It's somewhat of a habit to apologize for nearly everything I do. Should probably work on that.

That's like what I do.
And people are ok with it.

It's somewhat of a habit to apologize for nearly everything I do. Should probably work on that.

You're not clogging the thread. This is what the thread is for!

this

be happy that someone gives a fuck m8

Oh, I do. I regularly rant inside my own head, but it's better when it isn't an echo chamber.

Maybe this'll help. O-o (This is a link. Click me )

[Xantalos]

Huh. That's somewhat similar to what I've been recommended to do by people who know this sort of thing. Thanks, Tir.

[Spehss _]

Rather mundane shit, to be honest. I've been infatuated with a certain girl for about 2-3 years now. There's a whole bunch of stuff in between when I first met her and now, but short version we never really went beyond friends because due to my then-present home situation I was a shy sunovabitch with no real self esteem and I didn't know how to talk to people about romantic stuff, still don't. Haven't talked with her since after I finished high school, but the attraction never really faded, even if I periodically forgot about it for a week or two before I'd see her somewhere or a picture of her on Facebook or whatever and it'd resurface. Funnily enough it helped me talk to other girls since I felt no attraction toward them. It's been in that same situation for several months now, hence my repeated posts being pissed about dopamine. Today I found out I wasn't scheduled for work like I thought I was, so I was gonna go home, but instead of doing that, and knowing that there was no point to doing this, instead of getting on the bus and going home I went and walked by her house for no real reason, since she lives close by my work - I believe, anyway. She may have moved out in the meantime. I then walked back to the bus and went home, having made a ~2 km round trip for no real reason at all. So this is gonna probably just persist until I do something about it, as the problem exists entirely inside my own mind. But I haven't the slightest idea or pretext on which to contact her, so I can't really do anything but stew in this goddamn attraction that won't go away.
Fuckin brains.
Shit, this ended up a huge blurb again. Dang.

Are you me? Sounds like me. Apart from some small details. Hello me. You're cool. You can do the thing.